I haven’t been to church since I don’t remember when.
\n Things were goin’ great ’til they fell apart again.
\n So I listened to the preacher as he told me what to do.
\n He said you can’t go hatin’ others who have done wrong to you.
\n Sometimes we get angry, but we must not condemn.
\n Let the good Lord do His job and you just pray for them.<\/p>\n
I pray your brakes go out runnin’ down a hill,
\n I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to.
\n I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls,
\n I pray you’re flyin’ high when your engine stalls.
\n I pray all your dreams never come true,
\n Just know wherever you are honey, I pray for you.<\/p>\n
I’m really glad I found my way to church,
\n ‘Cause I’m already feelin’ better and I thank God for the words.
\n Yeah I’m goin’ take the high road,
\n And do what the preacher told me to do,
\n You keep messin’ up and I’ll keep prayin’ for you.<\/p>\n
I pray your tire blows out at 110,
\n I pray you pass out drunk with your best friend and wake up with his and her tattoos.
\n I pray your brakes go out runnin’ down a hill,
\n I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to.
\n I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls,
\n I pray you’re flyin’ high when your engine stalls.
\n I pray all your dreams never come true.
\n Just know wherever you are, near or far, in your house or in your car,
\n wherever you are honey, I pray for you.
\n I pray for you <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Certainly, God wants us to be honest in our prayers, and if we are angry at someone, we can pray about that, and tell God why we are angry. <\/p>\n
But according to Jesus, we should not attempt to pray down judgment and the wrath of God upon our enemies. Instead we should pray blessing and love upon them. They may be judged. God may punish them. But it is not what we should be praying for. As always, Jesus never asks us to do something He doesn\u2019t do Himself. One of the most amazing prayers in Scripture is uttered by Jesus for His enemies.<\/p>\n
After our Lord had been whipped, mocked, beaten, scorned and crowned with thorns he prayed for the crowds and soldiers who had done this. “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do” (Luke 23:34). Jesus was the only innocent person in all creation. He did not deserve the treatment he was receiving, yet He continued to pray for those who persecuted him and who spitefully used Him.<\/p>\n
Stephen, the first Christian martyr, followed his example. After giving testimony before the Sanhedrin that Jesus was the Messiah, Stephen was sentenced to be stoned to death. As the stones rained on his body, he looked up to heaven and prayed, “‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!’ And falling on his knees, he cried out with a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them!'” (Acts 7:60). Jesus was willing to die so that others might live, and Stephen followed his glorious example.<\/p>\n
We have another example of this in the Old Testament. King David acted this way several times in his life. One of David\u2019s greatest times of crisis was near the middle of his reign. This crisis is found in 2 Samuel 16. We could call it a mid-life crisis, because verse 1 speaks of David being just over the hill. David\u2019s son, Absalom, has committed treason and has crowned himself the new King of Israel. Rather than fight, David chooses to flee. As he leaves Jerusalem, a man named Shimei came out and began cursing David continuously. He says to David in verse 7, “Come out! Come out! You bloodthristy man, you rogue. The Lord has brought upon you all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned; and the Lord has delivered the kingdom into the hand of Absalom you son. So now you are caught in your own evil, because you are a bloodthirsty man!”<\/p>\n
Upon hearing these curses shouted toward David, one of David\u2019s companions asks David if he can go over and cut Shimei\u2019s head off. But the king said, “Let him alone and let him curse; for so the Lord has ordered him.” Have you ever realized what David realizes here? When someone curses you, it may be that God is trying to correct you of some sin or wrongdoing in your own life? If that is so, who are we to go and cut someone\u2019s head off for cursing us? Instead of cursing them in return, we should bless them and pray for them, for it may be God correcting us through them! So bless them, pray for them.<\/p>\n
This is what David does for Shimei in 2 Samuel 19. David had regained his throne, and Shimei was brought before him as a prisoner. Again, one of David\u2019s companions wanted to put Shimei to death, but David chooses to let him live. Though Shimei deserved death, David blessed him with life. This is part of the reason David was called a man after God\u2019s own heart. Of course, later, Shimei is killed under the reign of King Solomon, but in that instance, Shimei brings it on his own head, and Solomon is justified in sentencing him to death.<\/p>\n
Like Jesus and the martyr Stephen, and King David, we should pray for our enemies. We should pray for God to save them. We should pray for God to bless them. Such prayer is powerful. If you have an enemy you know you should love, you know you should do good things for, you know you should bless, but you just can’t, the best thing to do is to pray. But maybe you are wondering what to pray. Let me give two suggestions. Pray first for yourself. Pray that your heart would change into God’s heart. Pray that you would see people through God’s eyes. That you would develop love them with God’s love. Pray that God would perform a miracle in your own heart so you can love the unlovable.<\/p>\n
Pray that you would see them the way God sees them. You know, most of the time people are bitter and hateful toward us, it is because they have great hurt and pain in their own life they are trying to overcome. Henry Longfellow once wrote, “If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man\u2019s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.” God knows this secret history of all people, the hurt and pain they have gone though which makes them lash out at others. Pray that God would give you His eyes to see them as He does.<\/p>\n
“There stands a person who is responding out of anxiety, who may not have the peace of God that you have\u2026who may not know the forgiveness of sins, who does not have the hope of eternal life\u2026Jesus died for that person every bit as much as he died for you.” Can you see them that way? You can through prayer, so pray first for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\nPray second for them.<\/strong> This is actually what Jesus tells us to do as His disciples. To pray for those who spitefully use you. Pray that God would bless them. You can pray that they would see the errors of their ways and that they would repent of their sin. That\u2019s a blessing too. Turning from sin and turning toward God is one of the greatest blessings any person can experience. If they are unsaved, pray that God would save them. If repentance from sin is a great blessing, this one is the greatest of all. If they are not a Christian, pray that God would work overtime in their lives to bring them into His kingdom through faith in Christ.<\/p>\nHoward Hendricks tells the story of a group of Christian college students he was once mentoring. Many of them, it seemed, had someone in their life who was a thorn in the flesh. These enemies always seemed to take every opportunity to cause damage to the reputation of these students. Hendricks told the group to compile a list of names, and that they were going to pray for these people. At first, these Christian college students balked at praying for their enemies, but over time, their prayers became more fervent. Hendricks says that eventually, every single person on that list became a Christian.<\/p>\n
Prayer is the key to coming to a point where we can love, and do good for, and bless our enemies. There is no way you or I will ever be able to do good to those who hate us, and bless those who curse us unless God gets involved. Unless God changes the other people, and most importantly, changes our own hearts, we will never be able to do what Christ commands here. Loving our enemies and blessing those who spitefully use us is a supernatural work. We need supernatural assistance if we are going to follow Christ down this path. And in order to get this supernatural work, we need to pray for those who spitefully use us.<\/p>\n
When we pray that God would help us love them, and see them with His eyes, and give us opportunities to do good to them and bless them, we will discover that an enemy can be our best friend. As we bless them and pray for them, they bless us \u2013 even if they remain our enemies. As you love those who hate you, you come to understand the heart of God for a lost and rebellious world.<\/p>\n
An enemy can be a man\u2019s best friend. But it all depends on how we respond to their cursing words and bitter actions toward us. <\/strong><\/p>\nRather than curse them, bless them. <\/p>\n
Rather than retaliate, pray for them. <\/p>\n
When we bless our enemies and pray for them, they become a blessing to us as well. That\u2019s why I titled today\u2019s message, “The Blessing of Enemies.” Much good may come from responding to our enemies the way Christ instructs here. As we do good for them, and bless them and pray for them, they are the workmen that fit and square us for God’s building. They are the rods that beat off the dust, and the scouring pads that scrub off the rust from our souls. Enemies are the fires that purge, and the waters that cleanse the dross from our hearts.<\/p>\n
Years ago, when I was in Bible college studying to be a pastor, Wendy and I served tables at a Mexican Restaurant. There was another server there named Jesus (pronounced in the Spanish fashion). But he liked to introduce himself with the English pronunciation \u2013 Jesus. Jesus (Spanish) knew Wendy and I were Christians, that we were followers of Jesus, and he frequently like to ridicule us or challenge us in our beliefs and practices. It was even more humorous for him because of his name. That year, we were scheduled to work on Halloween, and the managers of the restaurant requested that everybody dress up in some costume to serve tables in. I remember going in to serve tables that day, and the first thing I encountered was Jesus (Spanish pronunciation), dressed up in a costume of \u2013 can you guess? \u2013 Satan. He would go up and introduce himself to his tables by saying, “Hello, my name is Jesus (English pronunciation) and I\u2019ll be your server today. He thought it was real funny, and he knew that it made Wendy and I upset. I don\u2019t remember quite how Wendy and I responded to him that day, but it was just one event out of many in which it became clear that he was our enemy. In those days I didn\u2019t do much praying for him, or blessing him. I don\u2019t know where he is now, or what he is doing, but one thing I do now every time I remember him. I pray for him. I pray that Jesus (Spanish) would find Jesus (English).<\/p>\n
This is what Jesus wants us to do for our enemies. God has loved us, blessed us, forgiven us, even while we were yet sinners and His enemies. Now He wants us to do the same for our enemies, and in so doing, show them the love of God. I read the story recently of how King Louis XII of France treated his enemies after he ascended to the throne. Before coming to power, he had been cast into prison and kept in chains. Later when he did become king, he was urged to seek revenge but he refused. Instead, he prepared a scroll on which he listed all who had perpetrated crimes against him. Behind every man’s name he placed a cross in red ink. When the guilty heard about this, they feared for their lives and fled. Then the king explained, “The cross which I drew beside each name was not a sign of punishment, but a pledge of forgiveness extended for the sake of the crucified Savior, who upon His cross forgave His enemies and prayed for them.”<\/p>\n
We are to bless and pray for our enemies, and as we do, they become a blessing to us as well because God works in and through us to make us more like Christ. Are you blessing your enemies and praying for them? If you do, they will become a blessing to you as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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