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From time to time Christians tell my wife and I that \u201cLoving the poor and homeless and your neighbors is all well and good. But that\u2019s really not all that important in the grand scheme of things. Getting them to heaven is the important thing. You should be telling them about Jesus so they can get saved and go to heaven. That\u2019s what they really need.\u201d<\/p>\n
In a sense I understand where many such comments originate. I understand the sentiment and passion behind them. However, I sense that those making the comments are repeating some stock statements they have heard somewhere, probably in church.<\/p>\n
Do you remember the heady days of the 70\u2019s when \u201cpersonal evangelists\u201d were \u201csaving\u201d people right and left? If you read the book \u201cEvangelism Explosion\u201d or attended a two hour \u201csoul winning\u201d class, you too could be a \u201csoul winner\u201d, whatever that term was intended to mean. If you were really good at soul winning, you could \u201cwin\u201d dozens of souls every day.<\/p>\n
Unfortunately, the vast majority of folks who tried those no-fail soul winning methods discovered the methods didn\u2019t work for them. Their friends, relatives, and neighbors would sooner have bought the carcass of a dead dog than sign on to whatever religious idea they were trying to sell.<\/p>\n
As a result, the emphasis shifted back to the churches, where it had been before the personal evangelism craze. As good Christians it was once again our job to convince our neighbors, friends, and relatives to go to our church. Then the preacher\u2019s responsibility was to preach the Gospel, the Word, or whatever term you might use, which would convince these folks to repent and get saved.<\/p>\n
This plan hasn\u2019t been going so well either. According to recent surveys, the average congregation in the USA reports approximately one person coming to faith each year. Actually the number is slightly less than one.<\/p>\n
Many Christians have decided that neither churches nor individual Christians are doing a good job telling people about Jesus. \u201cIf someone would only tell people, surely more would repent. Of course many won\u2019t, but at least they\u2019ve had their chance. They made the choice to go to hell instead of heaven.\u201d<\/p>\n
I find, however, that theory is rarely correct. Most people have heard about Jesus. Most people like Jesus. They\u2019ve heard about \u201cgetting converted.\u201d \u201cgetting saved,\u201d \u201crepenting,\u201d going to heaven and so on. They think they know what all that means. Ask them. They\u2019ll tell you.<\/p>\n
They also think they know everything they need to know about churches and Christians, and often what they think they know is not complimentary. Using the exact terms I have heard nonbelievers use on repeated occasions, they believe Christians are unloving, mean, angry, hateful, bigoted, homophobic, judgmental, too politically motivated, hypocritical, and more.<\/p>\n
Who of us would want to join up with any group that met those descriptions? Would we be interested in what they believe? Would we be interested in their religion or in their God?<\/p>\n
I have been surprised by how many nonbelievers can almost quote Ghandi\u2019s famous comment: \u201cI like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.\u201d<\/p>\n
Keeping all these things in mind, we try to love people and build friendships and relationships with them. That is our agenda.<\/strong> We\u2019re not selling soap, insurance, or religion. We don\u2019t hand someone a bottle of water and say we\u2019re with such and such a church. We don\u2019t give out tracts.<\/p>\n Sound un-Christian? Perhaps, but it doesn\u2019t work out that way. For example, we\u2019re often asked when giving food, clothes, tarps and other items to the homeless \u201cWhere do you get this stuff?<\/p>\n \u201cWe buy most of it,\u201d we answer.<\/p>\n \u201cWho gives you the money?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWe pay for it.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAre you part of some church or something?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWe\u2019re followers of Jesus. We\u2019re not part of an organized church. We come here to spend time with you. We bring church to you. No songs or preaching. Church is spending time with you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWell, the people down here have been discussing why you do this, and we think you do it because of your compassion. Is that right?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYes, we\u2019re trying to show the love of Jesus to our friends here.\u201d<\/p>\n We\u2019ve had variations of that conversation with the homeless, the poor, prostitutes, bikers decked out in their leathers and chains while sitting on their Hogs and others. We take Jesus to them.<\/p>\n Obviously not every person we come in contact with asks these kinds of questions, but we get them regularly, often several times a week.<\/p>\n Almost none of these folks go to church. The church has not been kind and loving to them in their opinion. In their hour of need, be it when a family member was gravely ill or died, when they lost their job, when they lost their home, or even when they ended up on the street, the church was not there for them. The church was sitting in a building singing songs and listening to Bible lessons.<\/p>\n We\u2019re often asked, \u201cCould I ask you something?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cOf course.\u201d<\/p>\n With rare exceptions the questions are about God, Jesus, the Bible, church, and so on, questions that somehow relate to their lives. Sometimes we spend twenty minutes or more answering the person\u2019s questions, usually with others inching up close enough to hear the conversation, and sometimes joining in.<\/p>\n We hear \u201cI\u2019ve always wanted to ask someone this, but didn\u2019t know who to ask,\u201d followed by God and Jesus questions.<\/p>\n No building, no sermon, no songs, no flyers, no ads, no sound system \u2013 none of those things. But most figure out we\u2019re there because we care<\/strong>.<\/p>\n I remember that old adage \u201cI don\u2019t care what you think until I know you care about me.\u201d I probably misquoted it, but you get the idea. Another way of stating the same idea: We must earn the right to be heard. Our currency is caring and loving.<\/strong><\/p>\n The church and Christians lost the right to be heard in many peoples\u2019 lives long ago. Instead of finding caring and loving, they found disinterest at best, meanness, hatred, anger, and judgment at worst.<\/p>\n Our friends, be they the homeless, the poor, our neighbors, or our gay friends, want to talk. They tell us their stories. We listen. They ask us questions. We answer their questions, talk with them, shake their hands, hug them, and in the case of the homeless give them some water and maybe an orange and a pair of socks, a tarp, or a warm coat.<\/p>\n Sometimes when we\u2019re on the street and we answer their questions with \u201cWe\u2019re here to show the love of Jesus to the folks here in the neighborhood,\u201d they start crying. I don\u2019t remember how many times this has happened, but it\u2019s not unusual.<\/p>\n We go. We care. We love. We share. They ask questions. We answer their questions. They listen intently because we\u2019re answering their questions. Our agenda is love.<\/strong> Period. The Spirit works in that space.<\/p>\n \u201cThank you for remembering us. We love you.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWe love you too!\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWe know.\u201d<\/p>\n Dear church,<\/p>\n Awaken from your slumber.<\/p>\n Get out of your buildings with your comfortable chairs and comfortable sermons. Meet you neighbors. Meet the poor. Meet the homeless. Meet the people you despise. Meet the people you\u2019re sure are going to hell.<\/p>\n Touch them. Hug them. Learn to care about them and their lives. Learn to love them. Be genuine. They can smell deception from afar.<\/p>\n Learn to share. Share your time. Share your material goods. Share your love.<\/p>\n Leave your theology, your opinions, your Bible verses at the door. They\u2019ve already heard those things from people who don\u2019t care and don\u2019t love, people who have been unloving to them time after time. Don\u2019t share your opinions about anything. Listen to their stories, their opinions. Listen and hear.<\/p>\n When they ask why you care, why you love them, it\u2019s OK to tell them you\u2019re sharing the love of Jesus. Then shut up. No Bible verses. No theology. Not a word about which church you attend. You \u2013 You are the church. So don\u2019t blow it by repeating what you believe about alcoholics, unmarried people living together, homosexuality, or whatever you think might apply to them. Hold your tongue.<\/p>\n When they ask about this Jesus, the Jesus they\u2019ve been seeing in you, tell them about Jesus, not Paul or Leviticus. They already know about Paul and Leviticus. What they don\u2019t know about is followers of Jesus who care about them and love them with the love of Jesus. May they say as you part ways that day: \u201cGoodbye. We love you.\u201d<\/p>\n And may you reply in return: \u201cWe love you too.\u201d<\/p>\n May you hear the echo: \u201cWe know.\u201d<\/p>\n Allow the Spirit a space in which to work, and then allow the Spirit to work. Don\u2019t try to sign anyone up for your Bible study, your church, or your theology class. Some may eventually decide to participate in those things, if they find caring and loving. Many others will not. They\u2019ve been hurt too badly in the past and cannot risk being hurt again.<\/p>\n You are the church. For many of the people you care about and love you are the only church, the only Bible, the only theology, they know. For those, you are the hands, the arms, the feet of Jesus.<\/p>\n Awaken from your slumber, oh church. Awaken and walk among the people of this world. Touch them, hug them, love them. Share the love of Jesus with them, that they may see the real Jesus, God with us.<\/p>\n And YOU can help.<\/p>\r\n Fill out the form below to receive several emails about how to love and serve the poor and homeless.<\/p>\r\n\r\nCare About Me First, Then We\u2019ll Talk<\/h2>\n
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I\u2019ve hugged a crying biker on his Hog in the middle of the street, a bank robber, Viet Nam, Iraq and Afghanistan veterans and more. I even hugged a crying city councilman. (He said \u201cNever in all my life have I ever seen or even heard of such a thing. If churches did this kind of stuff I might be interested in going to church.\u201d)<\/p>\nA Call to the Church<\/h2>\n
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If they\u2019re willing to share their stories and their lives with you be thankful. You\u2019re learning to care, learning to love, learning to share.<\/p>\n
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\nMay they exclaim \u201cNever in all my life have I ever seen or even heard of such a thing.\u201d<\/p>\n\r\nThere is so much need in the world!<\/h3>\r\n