{"id":32478,"date":"2013-10-24T08:00:39","date_gmt":"2013-10-24T16:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/redeeminggod.com\/?p=32478"},"modified":"2013-10-23T12:41:06","modified_gmt":"2013-10-23T20:41:06","slug":"i-am-a-church-member-thom-rainer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redeeminggod.com\/i-am-a-church-member-thom-rainer\/","title":{"rendered":"I Am A Church Member (but Thom Rainer doesn’t get it)"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/a>I like Thom Rainer. I have benefited greatly from his books and research. But his most recent book,\u00a0I Am a Church Member<\/em><\/a>,\u00a0<\/em>is severely misguided and misinformed.<\/p>\n I Am a Church Member<\/em><\/a>\u00a0<\/em>appears to be intended for “Church Membership” classes in local churches. While I am not a fan of \u00a0institutional churches or of the church membership classes that go with them, I do understand that if a group of believers are going to meet in an institutional way, they probably need some sort of membership rolls, and membership classes to go with them. Fine. If that is how you think it is best to follow Jesus, I have absolutely no problem with it.<\/p>\n So what is the problem with Thom Rainer’s book? I Am a Church Member<\/em><\/a>\u00a0uses guilt and fear to get new church members to do what the church leadership wants.<\/p>\n Let me back up.<\/p>\n By all reports, institutional Christianity is hemorrhaging. \u00a0Every year, millions of people abandon the institutional way of doing church, not because they are abandoning God, Jesus, or the Church, but because they find that intimate relationships with others and loving service in the community apart from the systematized and scheduled meetings on Sunday morning is a more natural way of following Jesus and living life as His disciples.<\/p>\n Naturally, this mass exodus from the church has church leaders scared. They need people to fill their pews. Why? So that they can give their tithes, so the church building can be paid for and the pastoral salaries funded, and so that there is a place and people for all the expensive church programs.<\/p>\n But how do you tell church members that to truly follow Jesus, they have to attend church, give their tithes, support the church leadership, and serve in church programs?<\/p>\n Apparently, you get Thom Rainer to write a book about it, and get 23 prominent church leaders and seminary presidents to endorse the book, and then price the book in such a way so that scared church leaders all over the country will buy hundreds of copies of the book so they can hand it out to all the people in their “Church Membership” classes.<\/p>\n Here is a basic summary of Thom’s book:<\/p>\n Rainer begins the book pointing out that nine out of ten American churches are declining in attendance (p. 4). His book is the proposed prescription to this problem. (But is it really a problem?)<\/p>\n Beginning with a terrible misunderstanding of Paul’s “Body” imagery in 1 Corinthians 12-14 and how every “member” of the Body needs every other member, Rainer uses six chapters to propose six commitments that every new church member must make to the church they are attending. The six commitments are actually six popular cliches which church leaders around the world love to use in sermons and in publications to guilt church people into being regular church attendees.<\/p>\n The best (read: worst) part about each chapter, is that they conclude with a pledge for the reader to sign and date! I can almost visualize the conclusion of each week in the Membership classes, where the Pastor (or Elder) teaching the class get everybody to stand and say the pledge out loud, and then collects copies of everyone’s pledge to be stored in the person’s “Membership File” so that if they ever get out of hand, the pastor can pull their file and say, “See? You made a commitment. You signed on the dotted line. Are you going to break your word? Are you a liar? You know where liars go, don’t you?”<\/p>\nA Summary-Review of I Am a Church Member<\/h2>\n