can see His response to us<\/em> through how life unfolds as we pray and communicate with Him.<\/p>\nGod always listens<\/h2>\n One benefit to God’s approach to us is that He always listens. Most of us want a good listener in a relationship. Very few of us want to be told what to do, or we would always take the advice of others rather than frequently having a comeback as to why one\u2019s suggestion won\u2019t work. Opinions are not always helpful or welcomed. Besides, one\u2019s interference can prevent growth and self-satisfaction resulting from making independent choices. We want to be heard by another soul to talk out situations and share burdens that are heavy to carry alone.<\/p>\n
If can be comforting to know God is always available to listen. We may be embarrassed to share our latest relapse with a friend. God doesn\u2019t heap more guilt on us. God has endless mercy and forgiveness so we don\u2019t give up no matter how demoralized we may feel. God is always available in times of loneliness. Friends can\u2019t always be available in the middle of the night. We may feel that we are overburdening our friends by constantly going to them. God\u2019s shoulders surely are much bigger.<\/p>\n
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But, I want to hear what God thinks!<\/h2>\n We all want to know what God thinks. But the truth is that we already mostly know what God thinks. If you think about it, we already know most of what God thinks about most issues. Therefore, talking with God is mostly for emotional support.<\/p>\n
And as for the issues where we want God’s input on our life decisions, God withholds His input because He wants us to make our own decisions. <\/p>\n
It is helpful to think about moral versus immoral actions. When it comes to most moral issues, God has already pretty clearly told us in Scripture what the best course of action is. <\/p>\n
But many decisions aren\u2019t moral – what job to take, whether to move to a different city, etc. God doesn\u2019t predetermine our future so we have to wonder the \u201cright\u201d decision. God doesn\u2019t know if your partner is suddenly not going to honor their commitment when challenges arise. Wise decisions are simply taking into account past experiences, current circumstances, future aspirations, and going for it. God\u2019s love is both freeing and uncontrolling. He doesn’t tell us what to do in such cases, because in some sense, He is just as excited as we are to find out what we will do and what will come of it. <\/p>\n
Some relational decisions seem to have a touch of morality that we aren\u2019t sure what God would do. God\u2019s love is still freeing. God isn\u2019t hiding. Should we forgive a mom and sibling for participating in favoritism? Neither admits to any favoritism but such actions are clear to most outsiders. The Bible can be used to suggest always forgive or forgiveness is only possible when one acknowledges wrongdoing. Jesus once said to rebuke others but if they repent forgive them (Luke 17:4). One may forgive to best deal with personal bitterness. Others may not forgive to avoid further bitterness since the guilty denies wrongdoing.<\/p>\n
In relationships there isn\u2019t always a \u201cright\u201d thing to do. It is more complicated for leaders of nations for they are making decisions for millions, thus governments best have checks and balances. <\/p>\n
Still, a relationship with God isn\u2019t about being told what to do. It is considering how a loving God may think on a matter and feeling free to make a decision based on your present circumstances. If you are insisting God guarantee a certain outcome, then you are asking God to be a controller. A loving God would speak audibly if necessary; otherwise, assume you have God\u2019s blessings if it isn\u2019t immoral or violating the rights of others. Don\u2019t live in fear; live in the knowledge of God’s love. And don’t demand certainty, for this is something even God cannot guarantee in a free world.<\/p>\n
I know some of what I have written is controversial. So what do you think? How can we hear the voice of God? How can we know what to do with certain decisions in life? How does a loving God help guide and direct us through life? Share your input and ideas in the comment section below.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Many of us talk out loud to God or we pray silently and then thoughts come into mind. Are such thoughts from the mind of God? Well, there is some bad news and some good news. This guest post by Mike Edwards explains more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":42746,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2245],"tags":[1964,1336,2543,1475,2544],"class_list":{"0":"post-42742","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-redeeming-life","8":"tag-guest-blogging","9":"tag-guest-post","10":"tag-hearing-god","11":"tag-prayer","12":"tag-voice-of-god","13":"entry"},"yoast_head":"\n
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