[4]<\/a><\/p>\nThis is what Paul means when he is talking about the futility of the mind. Humanity has the brightest minds working on the hardest problems, but nothing seems to be helping. The same problems keep cropping up over and over and over. We make progress in all sorts of areas, but when it comes to the condition of the human heart, mind, and soul, no real progress is being made at all!<\/p>\n
Now, you may be tempted to think that the problem with all these great thinkers, inventors, doctors, scientists, and philosophers is that they were not Christians. It is those \u201cGentiles,\u201d as Paul indicates, that are the problem. It\u2019s not us. It\u2019s them. If they simply adopted a heavenly perspective, an eternal mindset, then things would turn out better.<\/p>\n
If that is what you are thinking that right now, then hold on to that thought. It will be addressed shortly. If you agree with that idea that the whole world would be better if the whole world became Christian, then just hold on to that thought, and we will see how Paul addresses it.<\/p>\n
The rest of the descriptive phrases are essentially the same, and will be covered more quickly. Paul is basically condemning all the beliefs and behaviors of the Gentiles, which again, is a very strange thing for the Apostle of the Gentiles to do.<\/p>\n
The next trait of the Gentiles is that they have their understanding darkened<\/strong>. Here again, the emphasis is on the lack of knowledge among the Gentiles. Their mind is darkened, meaning there is no inner light in their minds. They have an inner shadow that obscures and hides all the great essential truths from their understanding. Since this trait is so similar to the previous one of Gentiles being futile in their minds, nothing else needs to be said here.<\/p>\nThe third characteristic of the Gentiles, according to Paul, is that they alienated from the life of God.<\/strong> This means they don\u2019t know or care about God or what He wants, and so they live as they please. The next part of Ephesians 4:18 tells us why they are this way. They are alienated because of the ignorance that is in them, and because of the blindness of their heart<\/strong>. They are willfully determined to stay in their sin. Again, there is an emphasis here on mental ignorance and blindness, showing that the root problem is a problem in the mind. Paul seems to be implying that the Gentiles having nothing good going on inside their mind.<\/p>\nNext, in the first part of Ephesians 4:19, they are past feeling<\/strong>. They are without feeling. This doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t have physical sensation, feelings, or emotions. They do. The first century Mediterranean world was motivated by honor and shame, and so in that context, this phrase means that they have no sensitivity toward the issues of honor and shame. Today, we might say that their conscience been seared (1 Tim 4:2). They are no longer sensitive to the sensations of a guilty conscience.<\/p>\nThen we read that they have given themselves over to lewdness<\/strong>. Lewdness can also be translated as lasciviousness, debauchery, sexual excess, absence of restraint, or insatiable desire for pleasure. And finally, Paul writes that the Gentiles do all of this uncleanness with greediness. <\/strong>They engage in all of these behaviors that Paul has listed, and they cannot get enough of such things. No matter how much they live in such wicked ways, they are always greedy for more.<\/p>\nNow what are we to make of this blanket condemnation by Paul of all things Gentile? Sadly, most Christians seem to rip passages like this out of context so that they can smugly condemn and judge anyone else who is not a Christian. They also use texts like this to ignore any ideas or wisdom that might come from a non-Christian. For example, I purposefully quoted Carl Jung above. Because many people feel that certain elements in his life prove that he was not a Christian, and therefore, they can disregard anything he taught or said. Christians will similarly completely discard ideas from the great philosophers and scientists of history.<\/p>\n
I recently heard a famous pastor in California say that the Bible contains all truth, and so if something is not found in the Bible, then it is not true and can be ignored. What a shocking statement! It\u2019s also completely contradictory to any possible way of living. For example, this particular pastor made this statement on social media. Well, the technology behind social media is not in the Bible. The people who created the computer code, and developed the apps certainly were not using biblical truths to do so. And electricity and computers aren\u2019t in the Bible. Nor is the polyblend suit and satin tie this pastor was wearing in the picture on his social media post. Nor the spectacles he had on his face. Nor the pulpit he was standing behind. Nor the microphone he was speaking into.<\/p>\n
And yet, according to this pastor, if it\u2019s not in the Bible, it\u2019s not true. It is because of passages like Ephesians 4:17-19 that this pastor feels totally justified in making such a ridiculous claim. He can point to Paul\u2019s description here and say, \u201cSee? Non-Christians are futile in their thinking. They are spiritually blind and mentally ignorant. They have no connection with God, and nothing good to say. Everything they do is nothing but sinful sensuality and lust. So we can safely ignore them all.\u201d<\/p>\n
What an attitude! In fact, let me go a step further and say, \u201cWhat an ignorant<\/em> attitude!\u201d Any Christian who says that non-Christians are ignorant and blind and so can be ignored, is themself ignorant and blind.<\/p>\n
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But wait! Isn\u2019t that what Paul himself just said? Didn\u2019t Paul just say that non-Christians are ignorant and blind, darkened in their understanding, futile of mind, given to nothing but sensuality, lewdness, and greediness? If I just said that anyone who says such things is ignorant themselves, and Paul just said such things, then am I saying that Paul is ignorant?<\/p>\n
No, I am not. Here, as always in Scripture, context is critically important. And people like that famous pastor who think that Paul is issuing a blanket condemnation of all non-Christians here in Ephesians 4:17-19 have missed a very important truth from the context of this passage to show us what Paul was actually saying (Note: all similar passages have similarly contextual clues about what is really going on. Cf. Eph 2:3; 5:3-5; Col 3:5-10; Rom 1:19-24).<\/p>\n
Let us briefly look at this overlooked contextual observation to see what Paul was saying, and then, once we have understood the context, we can reconsider Ephesians 4:17-19 again, to see how to properly read this text.<\/p>\n
An Overlooked Observation<\/h2>\n
So what is Paul saying in Ephesians 4:17-19? Paul seems to be blasting the Gentiles. He seems to be issuing a blanket condemnation on all Gentiles for everything they think, say, and do. And since Paul is the Apostle to the Gentiles, this seems to be a very strange and unloving approach. Paul has just written in Ephesians 4:15 that we should speak the truth in love, but there seems to be very little love in Ephesians 4:17-19.<\/p>\n
First of all, before we look to the wider context, an alert biblical thinker will recognize that Paul is engaging in a classic scapegoating technique. He is portraying a group of outsiders as monsters, so that they can be safely sidelined, ignored, or in some more extreme cases, arrested or even killed. All hatred, war, and violence comes from scapegoating, and one of the primary purposes for the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus was to unveil the scapegoating sin that all humans practice.<\/p>\n
Paul knows this. It is quite evident from various other texts that Paul knows that humans love to scapegoat other humans, and that Jesus came to reveal it and put an end to it. But Paul engages in it here. \u2026 Or at least, he seems to.<\/p>\n
Paul uses a classic scapegoating technique to create a division between two people groups. He is creating an \u201cus vs. them\u201d division. Insiders vs. outsiders. Though Paul earlier said in Ephesians 2, \u201cYou were outsiders, but now you are insiders,\u201d Paul now seems to say, \u201cThere is a new group of outsiders. It\u2019s those nasty Gentiles.\u201d (cf. Perkins, New Interpreters Bible Commentary, <\/em>67).<\/p>\nAnd this is a very curious thing to do, because previously, when Paul referred to Gentiles, he was referring to the Gentile Christians of Ephesus. In Ephesians 2:11 and 3:1, he doesn\u2019t say, \u201cYou Gentile Christians,\u201d but simply \u201cYou Gentiles.\u201d But now Paul issues a blanket condemnation on all Gentiles. But his readers knew, as you and I do, that he\u2019s not talking about the Gentile Christians in Ephesus, but all the other <\/em>Gentiles. Paul is now contrasting the Gentile Christians from the Gentile pagans, even though he has called both groups \u201cGentiles.\u201d He is creating a division between the two groups. At least, that\u2019s what he seems to be doing.<\/p>\nWhich is very strange, because previously when Paul wrote about Gentiles, Paul said that the dividing wall of enmity between them and God had been torn down (Eph 2:14). But now, it appears from a surface reading of the text that the wall was not, in fact, torn down at all; it was only moved. While there used to be a wall between Jew and Gentile, now there was a wall between Christians and everyone else. So there are still two groups, and there is still a wall between them. And just as before, one group should shun and reject the other, just as it has always been.<\/p>\n
And many Christians today agree. That famous pastor says, \u201cIgnore everything non-Christians say. Just read your Bible. That\u2019s all you need.\u201d Others say, \u201cShun non-Christians. Ignore them. Don\u2019t hang out with them. They will drag you down into their sin and shameful ways of living. Don\u2019t read their books. Don\u2019t listen to their music. Don\u2019t fellowship with them in any way. If you must <\/em>interact with them, do so only to invite them to church or share the gospel with them.\u201d<\/p>\nIs this really what Paul is saying? Did Paul really tear down the dividing wall of separation in Ephesians 2, only to reconstruct it in Ephesians 4?<\/p>\n
No.<\/p>\n
Quite to the contrary, Paul performs a masterful move here which reveals the truth of what he is actually saying. Though Paul initially seems <\/em>to be erecting another dividing wall of separation, he then, with just a few words, tears it all down and shows the Ephesians Christians what he really wants them to see.<\/p>\nLet me walk you through it. In Ephesians 4:17-19, Paul writes a disparaging description of Gentiles. He knew, due to the propensity humans have for scapegoating others, that his readers would be nodding their heads in agreement with what he writes. As they read his words, they would be saying, \u201cYes! Those Gentiles are so evil and depraved! I\u2019m not like that, thank God. But they are. I need to stay away from such sinners! I need to ignore them.\u201d Many Christians today have the same attitude.<\/p>\n
But then Paul turns the tables on his readers. He makes a masterful move. It\u2019s a theological checkmate. In the following verses, in Ephesians 4:20-22, Paul turns the tables on his readers and basically says, \u201cRemember how I referred to you as Gentiles before? And I\u2019m writing here about Gentiles also, and you thought I was referring to someone else, those non-Christian Gentiles? Well, I\u2019m not. I\u2019m still writing about you!\u201d<\/p>\n
In Ephesians 4:20-22, based on something Paul says, we learn, much to our shock, that in Ephesians 4:17-19, Paul was not writing about unregenerate Gentiles at all, but about the Ephesians Christians themselves! And therefore, Paul is also writing about us!<\/p>\n
In Ephesians 4:20-22, Paul says to the Ephesian Christians, \u201cNow that you are a follower of Jesus, you need to put off the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts.\u201d In other words, Paul is saying, \u201cThat description of Gentiles I provided earlier? That\u2019s a description of the old man that is still living in you! It\u2019s you I was describing! Not them. And you need to get rid of that way of thinking and living!\u201d<\/p>\n
Further evidence for this is that Paul goes on in the rest of Ephesians 4 and Ephesians 5 to give some very specific examples of how they should put off the old man and put on the new. He tells them how they should no longer be like the description he provided in Ephesians 4:17-19 and should instead be who Jesus has called them to be.<\/p>\n
Do you see what a masterful move this is? It uses the behavior of others to hold a mirror up to our own soul. Paul blasts Gentile thinking and behavior, knowing full well that his reading audience would be nodding their heads in agreement. Some would be shouting \u201cAmen!\u201d Others would be saying, \u201cPreach it!\u201d Then, after they\u2019re all worked up into a lather, Paul says, \u201cOh, and by the way, I\u2019m talking about you.\u201d Imagine the silence that then settles over the listening audience. And Paul basically goes on to say, \u201cAnd the simple fact that you thought I was talking about someone else reveals the truth of this description for you. You are futile in your thinking, and darkened in your understanding, and blind in your hearts because, although you are a Christian, you are still carrying around that old man! Get rid of him!\u201d<\/p>\n
Talk about a gut punch.<\/p>\n
Now this is a very common tactic for Paul. He does something similar in Romans, 1 Corinthians, Galatians, and Colossians. In various places, he talks about various sins that Gentiles commit, and then he turns the table on his reading audience and says, \u201cBut I\u2019m not talking about them. I\u2019m talking about you! The things you condemn in others, you are guilty of yourselves! Don\u2019t worry about them! Focus on your own life!\u201d<\/p>\n
Essentially, Paul is holding up a mirror to the souls of his readers by getting them to condemn some other group of people, and then he says, \u201cLook! You\u2019re looking into mirror. They are the mirror of you!\u201d<\/p>\n
And even though this is a common tactic for Paul, you should know that Paul didn\u2019t come up with it himself. It is a very common literary device found all over the Hebrew Scripture. The prophetical book of Amos is one famous example.<\/p>\n
The book of Amos was written to the people of Israel, and it begins by pronouncing judgment upon all the nations that surround Israel. Over and over, Amos lists the sins that these nations committed, and then he condemns them for it. Amos does this with Damascus (Amos 1:3-5), Gaza (Amos 1:4-8), Tyre (Amos 1:9-10), Edom (Amos 1:11-12), Ammon (Amos 1:13-15), Moab (Amos 2:1-3), and Judah (Amos 2:4-5). But then, beginning in Amos 2:6, the prophet turns the tables on his readers and says, \u201cHey \u2026 as I was going through that list of sinful nations and condemning all their sin, and you were nodding your head in agreement about how sinful and wicked those other nations are \u2026 Guess what? You are all guilty of exactly the same things!\u201d<\/p>\n
You can almost imagine the scene:<\/p>\n
Amos: The people of Damascus are evil! God will punish them!<\/p>\n
People: Yeah!<\/p>\n
Amos: Gaza is so wicked, God will destroy it!<\/p>\n
People: Yes! Get rid of them all!<\/p>\n
Amos: Tyre is full of sin and rebellion! Destruction is coming!<\/p>\n
People: The sooner the better!<\/p>\n
Amos: And the same goes for the ignorant, idolatrous, greedy, sinful people of Edom, Ammon, Moab, and Judah!<\/p>\n
People: Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!<\/p>\n
Amos: And worst of all, the greatest sinners of all \u2026 is you!<\/p>\n
People: Yea\u2026 wait \u2026 what?<\/p>\n
Amos: Everything those other people have done, you\u2019ve done worse!<\/p>\n
People: No. That\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n
Amos: It is. Look at yourself. Take a careful look. Judgment is coming. If you want judgment to fall upon your enemies, then be careful, because it will fall on you first. You are just as bad as they are, if not worse.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
This is exactly what Paul is doing here in Ephesians 4. He describes the traits of the Gentiles, knowing that his reading audience will be nodding his head in agreement about how wicked and evil \u201cthey\u201d are. And then Paul holds up the mirror, and says, \u201cYes. I\u2019m describing you. So get rid of that old man and put on the new.\u201d<\/p>\n
So Paul is not <\/em>constructing a new dividing wall of hostility. Jesus tore down that wall. Paul is not building a new one. He is not creating a new \u201cus vs. them\u201d division made up of insiders and outsiders.<\/p>\nPaul is setting a trap for his religious readers. He\u2019s pulling the rug out from under his readers. In Ephesians 4:17-19, he paints this vivid picture of the Gentiles\u2014futile minds, darkened understanding, hardened hearts\u2014and it\u2019s easy to nod along, thinking, \u201cYeah, those outsiders are a mess.\u201d It\u2019s comfortable to point fingers. Then in Ephesians 4:22, he turns it around: \u201cYou were taught \u2026 to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires.\u201d Suddenly, it\u2019s not about \u201cthem\u201d\u2014it\u2019s about \u201cyou.\u201d<\/p>\n
Paul\u2019s not subtle about this elsewhere either. In Romans 2:1, after slamming idolatry and immorality, he hits the self-righteous with, \u201cYou, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself.\u201d It\u2019s a classic move: lure you into agreement, then flip the mirror. Here in Ephesians, the trap\u2019s sneakier\u20144:17-19 sets up the \u201cGentile life\u201d as the foil, but 4:22 reveals that \u201cold self\u201d isn\u2019t gone just because you\u2019re a Christian. It\u2019s still lurking, and those traits\u2014insensitivity, lust, impurity\u2014can be yours if you\u2019re not careful. Paul is saying, \u201cDon\u2019t get smug in condemning non-Christians. Their sins are still yours as well. In fact, since you claim to be an enlightened follower of Jesus Christ, your sins are worse!\u201d<\/p>\n
But we refuse to see it, because it\u2019s so much easier and more enjoyable to point the finger at someone else. Let me quote Carl Jung again. He once wrote, \u201cPeople will do anything, no matter how absurd, to avoid facing their own souls.\u201d He also taught that one of the best ways to see our own souls is to see it reflected in the mirror of other people. He said that everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. One of the best ways that God uses to reveal to us the faults and problems of our own soul is to see it reflected back to us through the lives of other people. Other people are the mirror to our own soul. Carl Jung taught that our relationships with others are the mirrors of ourselves.<\/p>\n
And many Christians condemn Carl Jung and ignore his insights in psychology because they claim he wasn\u2019t a Christian. But Jung is teaching the same thing that Paul teaches here. Both are teaching that it is helpful to look at the sins of others, not so that we might condemn them, but so that we might get a glimpse into the problems of our own soul. We look to others as a mirror for the self. That is what Jung taught and that is what Paul teaches here in Ephesians 4:17-19.<\/p>\n
Each of us have an inner shadow, a hidden, unrecognized, unacknowledged, messy part of ourselves that we shove down so that we don\u2019t have to deal with it. When we see sin, hypocrisy, or arrogance in other people and it grates on us, maybe it\u2019s not just them. Maybe it\u2019s the mirror flashing something we\u2019re wrestling with too, something we don\u2019t want to deal with.<\/p>\n
The world is a mirror that reveals ourself to ourself, as we really are. When we have emotional responses to others, particularly those that cause irritation or discomfort, this response can reveal unresolved or unacknowledged aspects of ourselves. The \u201cirritating\u201d traits we see in others might be connected to our own hidden self, the unconscious part of our personality that we repress or deny. By examining our reactions to others, we can gain insights into our own unconscious patterns and work towards greater self-awareness and personal growth.<\/p>\n
But we must be careful. The mirror of others is not an exact mirror. For example, if you find yourself constantly annoyed by someone who is always late, this doesn\u2019t mean that you also are always late. You\u2019re probably not. You are probably very punctual, and so it annoys you when others are late. But that annoyance is an opportunity to learn something about yourself. Maybe you have tendencies towards perfectionism or control, which you are projecting onto the other person.<\/p>\n
This is what Paul is doing in Ephesians 4:17-19. He purposefully creates a scapegoat out of the Gentiles, so that he can expose the scapegoat for what it is and hold up to his Gentile Christian audience their own hypocrisy and self-deception. He uses Gentile non-Christians to hold up a mirror to Gentile Christians so that they can get a glimpse into the shadows of their own soul.<\/p>\n
This brings us to the third and final point. We looked at the meaning of the text of Ephesians 4:17-19, the overlooked observation that helps us better understand what Paul is doing, and now, with this observation in mind, we want to talk about the proper way of reading this text.<\/p>\n
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The Proper Way to Read Ephesians 4:17-19<\/h2>\n
It should be obvious by now that Paul, as the loving and gracious Apostle to the Gentiles, is not <\/em>blasting non-Christian Gentiles for how sinful and evil they are. This would contradict Paul\u2019s mission and ministry, and pretty much everything he has written in Ephesians up to this point. He is not issuing a blanket condemnation on all Gentiles. He is not condemning them all or judging them all. Rather, he is holding up a mirror to the Ephesian Christians, and thus to us as well, so that we can see that the problem with the world is not \u201cout there\u201d but \u201cin here.\u201d The problem is with me. With you.<\/p>\nPaul is playing on a form of religious bigotry that all religious people have. Though we used to be just like the people we condemn, and though in many ways, we are still just like them, we think that we are now better than them. We look down our spiritual noses at them and say, with the Pharisee, \u201cGod, thank you that I am not like this sinner\u201d (Luke 18:11). Paul is doing the same thing Jesus did when He pointed out the hypocrisy and spiritual blindness that exists among the religious people of His own people in His own day when He called the Pharisees \u201cwhitewashed tombs\u201d (Matt 23:27-28).<\/p>\n
The reality is that we are just like those we condemn. Sure, we\u2019ve been redeemed, but this doesn\u2019t make us perfect. We still have lots of faults in our own lives that requires Spirit-filled work to fix. By holding up the Gentiles in a negative light as he has, Paul is actually holding up a mirror for the Ephesian Christians to look into, so that they can see their own faces (Jas 1:23) and then go away and do something about what they have seen.<\/p>\n
Paul\u2019s language is rhetorical and pastoral, aiming to contrast the \u201cold self\u201d with the \u201cnew self\u201d in Christ (as the chapter continues). Ephesians 4:17-19 is not a Gentile condemnation, but a call to Christian transformation. If we use this text to condemn and judge non-Christians, then we are guilty of the sins listed in this text. The text is not at all about \u201cthem\u201d out there, but about \u201cme\u201d in here, in my heart.<\/p>\n
For if we are truly honest with ourselves, we will recognize that genuine Christians can have many of the traits mentioned by Paul in Ephesians 4:17-19. Many Christians are futile in their thinking, insensitive, or indulgent, hard hearted, greedy, and full of sensuality. Many Christians really don\u2019t know the first thing about God, though we certainly talk like we do.<\/p>\n
Many of us think that since we have believed in Jesus, we\u2019re good to go. That we are morally and spiritually superior to everyone else. But this is pure self-deception! It is futile thinking! Faith doesn\u2019t automatically erase human flaws. We all can still chase impure desires despite our belief in Jesus. Some of us might lean on ritual or dogma (futile thinking) without genuine transformation or become desensitized to others\u2019 needs while clinging to a moral high ground. The \u201ccontinual lust for more\u201d (NIV) does not seem to refer to sexual lust itself (which some Christians are guilty of), but could even manifest as an obsession with status, control, or material blessings under the guise of spirituality.<\/p>\n
Many Christians struggle with hypocrisy, judgmental attitudes, arrogance, blindness to personal faults, unwillingness to learn or consider different perspectives, a lack of empathy for non-Christians and other similar traits. In fact, all such traits are far worse in the Christian than in the non-Christian, for it is Christians who claim to be different. Yes, such human failings are not exclusive to Christians; they just sting more when wrapped in a faith that\u2019s supposed to counter them. Christians are just as broken as anyone, but the stakes feel higher because of the ideals they claim.<\/p>\n
We need to remember that when someone becomes a Christian, human nature doesn\u2019t just vanish. Faith might redirect people, but it doesn\u2019t erase the raw stuff we\u2019re made of\u2014things like pride, fear, and selfishness. Christians are still wrestling with the same impulses everyone else does. Paul\u2019s \u201cold self\u201d (Ephesians 4:22) doesn\u2019t just vanish at conversion; it\u2019s a lifelong fight. Some don\u2019t fight it hard enough. Some retain the old self and simply learn to cover it up with outwardly righteous words and behaviors, but this just makes the problem even worse.<\/p>\n
How does it make it worse? Christians become very good at hiding their flaws in church and from one another. But when we hide the flaws instead of deal with them, the flaws only become larger. They are amplified. Certain church environments, those that are insular, dogmatic, or performance-driven, can breed hypocritical judgmental traits. When faith becomes about rules, status, or \u201cus vs. them,\u201d it\u2019s easy to slide into judgment, arrogance, or hypocrisy. Empathy gets sidelined when the focus is on being \u201cright\u201d rather than being loving. When the goal shifts from following Christ to policing others, we lose empathy and become judgmental instead. It\u2019s far easier to spot sin \u201cout there\u201d than deal with it \u201cin here.\u201d<\/p>\n
And in the churches where perfectionism is taught and sin is often condemned, some people are afraid to admit their own flaws. Admitting flaws or considering other perspectives takes guts. Some Christians might cling to certainty, using arrogance as a shield, because questioning feels like a threat to their identity or salvation. It hardens them, ironically, against the humility their faith calls for.<\/p>\n
Sometimes complacency sets in. For some, faith starts strong but turns into a routine. They lean on the label \u201cChristian\u201d without the ongoing self-reflection or growth Jesus modeled. That blindness to faults or unwillingness to learn might come from resting on past decisions rather than living them out daily.<\/p>\n
In Ephesians 4:17-19, Paul is not telling us to point the finger at those evil non-Christians and condemn them for all that is wrong with the world. He is, instead, pointing the finger at himself. And inviting us to point our finger at ourselves. The problem with the world is not someone else. For me, the problem is me. For you, the problem is you.<\/p>\n
In Kindergarten we are taught that whenever you point the finger at someone else, there are three fingers pointing back at you. That is how to read this text, and Paul deftly does some finger pointing at others to reveal to the Ephesian Christians that they should stop worrying about what others do, and instead take a look at their own life. Who cares what \u201cthey\u201d do? Life isn\u2019t about fixing them or controlling them. Life is about you becoming who God made you to be.<\/p>\n
Think of it as sacred selfishness. Before you can even begin thinking about fixing others, you must first work on yourself. You must first know yourself, and then work to accept yourself, love yourself, forgive yourself, and develop yourself into the person God wants you to be. And this is a task that will take your own life.<\/p>\n
We object by saying, \u201cBut if all I do is focus on conforming myself to who God made me to be, then how will those people over there stop sinning? How will they get fixed?\u201d The truth of the matter is that they are probably saying the same thing about you. So rather than everyone focusing on everyone else, imagine how much better the world would be if everyone just worked on themselves.<\/p>\n
Christians often thing, \u201cWell, the whole world would be better if the whole world became Christian.\u201d And while that might <\/em>be true, it reveals an internal problem for why it will never be true. As long as we are focused on the problems with \u201cthem\u201d out there, the world will never improve. Think of the pride and arrogance it takes to say that the whole world would be better if the whole world was like us. And it is this pride and arrogance that leads to all <\/em>the negative character traits that Paul lists in Ephesians 4:17-19.<\/p>\nThe problem, Paul reveals, is not \u201cthem\u201d at all. It\u2019s you. It\u2019s me. And we can\u2019t change them. But there is one person in the world I can change, and it\u2019s me. There is one person in the world you can change, and it\u2019s you. The world is changed one person at a time, and the person you can change is not anyone \u201cout there.\u201d The only person you can change, the only person you should try to change, is you.<\/p>\n
True and lasting change does not come from trying to get everyone else to behave like you. No, that will never work. It\u2019s also futile, ignorant, and arrogant. But the world can change, and will change, if you seek to change yourself. Again, Carl Jung says it best:<\/p>\n
As any change must begin somewhere, it is the single individual who will experience it and carry it through. The change must begin with an individual; it might be any one of us. Nobody can afford to look around and wait for somebody else to do what he is loath to do himself.\u201d[5]<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\nWe are, each of us, \u201cthat infinitesimal unit on whom the whole world depends, and in whom, if we read the meaning of the Christian message aright, even God seeks his goal.\u201d[6]<\/a><\/p>\nWhen we see someone acting ignorantly or arrogantly, it is not an opportunity to condemn them, but to take a good look into our own soul and see what work needs to be done inside. We must come to terms with our own shadow. We must learn to deal with the parts of ourselves that the mirror of others reveals to us.<\/p>\n
Notes on Ephesians 4:17-19<\/h2>\n
[1]<\/a> Swindoll, 123.<\/p>\n[2]<\/a> Snodgrass, referencing Barth, 230.<\/p>\n[3]<\/a> Jung, Collected Works X<\/em><\/a>, (Amazon affiliate link) \u201cThe Undiscovered Self,\u201d 276.<\/p>\n[4]<\/a> Jung, \u00a0Collected Works X<\/em><\/a>, (Amazon affiliate link) \u201cAfter the Catastrophe,\u201d 217.<\/p>\n[5]<\/a> Jung, Man & His Symbols<\/a>, (Amazon affiliate link) <\/em>101.<\/p>\n[6]<\/a> Jung, \u00a0Collected Works X<\/em><\/a>, (Amazon affiliate link)\u00a0\u201cThe Undiscovered Self,\u201d 305.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In Ephesians 4:17-19, Paul seems to condemn all Gentiles for certain beliefs and behaviors. But is this really what the gracious Apostle to the Gentiles is doing? No. Listen to this study of Ephesians 4:17-19 to learn more. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":54968,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2302,2230,2296],"tags":[3335,3336,2589,1272],"class_list":{"0":"post-54960","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bible-sermons","8":"category-redeeming-scripture","9":"category-z","10":"tag-ephesians-417-19","11":"tag-gentiles","12":"tag-scapegoating","13":"tag-sin","14":"entry"},"yoast_head":"\n
Ephesians 4:17-19: Sacred Selfishness<\/title>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\n\n\n\n\n\t\n\t\n\t\n