I sure hope hypocrites can change.
Everyone knows what a hypocrite is. They are two-faced. They say one thing in public, but do the opposite in private. Or they say one thing to one group of people, and the opposite to others, just so they can be accepted by both. Jesus had numerous encounters with religious hypocrites in His day, and there is no shortage of hypocrites today either.
There is one hypocrite in particular who annoys me more than all others. I first encountered him on my blog about five years ago, and every so often, more recently of late, he comes back and spouts off some sort of pious nonsense, which sounds good on the electronic page, but which I know for a fact is nothing but pure hypocrisy.
So I sure hope hypocrites like this can change.
I want him to keep interacting on my blog, but if he keeps it up, I might have to ban him.
He writes about all the problems in church and all the changes that need to be done to fix the church, but I know that he never really seems to make any changes in his own life. And he himself is not really all that involved in church anyway. He is like a “back pew driver.” I want to quote to him that old line we learned in kindergarten: “When you point your finger at someone else, three point back at you,” but it sounds so juvenile.
I am tired of all his talk about loving and serving others, when really, from what I know about him, he rarely loves or serves anyone except himself. His wife and kids do more service than he does, and then he writes about it as if he were doing it! Talk about hypocrisy! Sometimes I just want to ask him, “Who do you serve? Who do you love?” Certainly, he has some decent ideas, but if all he is doing is talking about them, it is pure hypocrisy.
So I sure hope hypocrites like this can change.
He has his own blog, of course (who doesn’t these days?), and sometimes I read it. I recently read a post where he criticized big mega churches for their lack of close relationships and true, genuine fellowship. I suppose I agree. It is difficult to develop close relationships in big churches. But then, close relationships are difficult to develop everywhere! And besides, I know some about this guy. He doesn’t have a single close friend! Nobody he regularly fellowships with. It looks like he is not doing any better with relationships and fellowship than are the people in the mega churches he criticized.
I have almost stopped reading his blog completely. I get too upset. I wonder how he can write such things without shame? Where is his integrity? Where is his honesty about himself and his own life? Everything he writes on the page sounds good in theory, and seems to reflect biblical principles and ideas, and he seems to love Jesus and want to show the love of Jesus to others. That’s all good. But there is a wide gap between wanting to do something and actually doing it. And that gap is called hypocrisy. If all he ever does is writes about loving and serving others, but never actually does it, he is a hypocrite.
So I sure hope hypocrites like this can change.
I really hope hypocrites can change…
Otherwise, there is no hope for me.
For I am that hypocrite.
Here is a list of other Synchroblog participants. Go read them all!
The Trouble With Hope: John Ptacek
Hope = Possibility x Imagination: Wayne Rumsby
Where Is My Hope: Jonathan Brink
Now These Three Remain: Sonny Lemmons
Perplexed, But Still Hopeful: Carol Kuniholm
A Hope that Lives: Amy Mitchell
Generations Come and Generations Go: Adam Gonnerman
Demystifying Hope: Glenn Hager
God in the Dark: On Hope: Renee Ronika Klug
Keeping Hope Alive: Maurice Broaddus
Are We Afraid to Hope?: Christine Sine
On Wobbly Wheels, Split Churches and Fear: Laura Droege
Hope is Held Between Us: Ellen Haroutunian
Hope: In the Hands of the Creatively Maladjusted: Mihee Kim-Kort
Paradox, Hope and Revival: City Safari
Good Theology Saves: Reverend Robyn
Linear: Never Was, Never Will Be: Kathy Escobar
Caroline for Congress: Hope for the Future: Wendy McCaig
Fumbling the Ball on Hope: KW Leslie
Hope: Oh, the Humanity!: Deanna Ogle
David Mercer on Facebook says
I’m on my way out the door to Spunky Dunkers donuts. I have one last binge before I preach this Sunday on the stewardship of the body.
Jeremy Myers says
I love donuts!
Swanny says
Whew! At first I thought you were talking about me 🙂
Jeremy Myers says
Nope. It’s all about me!
Oops. Now I sound self-centered.
AAAGGHHH!!!
Alan Knox on Facebook says
I’m only a hypocrite in private.
Jeremy Myers says
Hilarious. Is that possible?
Liz Dyer says
if you were pointing to yourself why did I feel so convicted?
Sam says
I’m guessing you’re being a bit more than tongue-in-cheek here. The big difference between you and so many of the Christian blogs is that you admit you write about these things more than you do them.
Most of us actually are in contact with various people every day. Whether it be at the store, on the phone dealing with the (crazy) insurance company, at work, in the neighborhood or in our own home, we have opportunities to love our “neighbors” (all of these people).
We can be real with these people, and love and serve them. To me, that’s where “church” really happens, not in some building where everyone tries to be and act pretty and put on a performance. Isn’t the hypocrite really “the actor”?
We need to hear your voice. We all know that lots of the people writing blogs are being about as real as many of the people we have seen in churches. On the other hand, a mix of experience and writing works really well. Absent experience, our writing becomes fantasies, inventions of our minds. (Sadly, that pretty well sums up my opinion of many blogs.)
Jeremy Myers says
Thanks, Sam. You have been an inspiration for me on this. I am working at living what I write, but writing is so much easier than living!
Kirk says
We are all hypocrites! Good post
Jeremy Myers says
At least we all in this together, I guess!
Taco says
Well I think I agree on you being me 🙁
Any how I don’t attend a church-building for more then one year now, with one exception when I dedicated my son and I did that more for my wife and family as for myself. maybe it is good for the kid? But he will never remember this, only from pictures and is it a good custom??? But still a lot of time is spent behind my PC and not a lot of time building relationships with christians or pre-christians. I do have one close friend be he lives far away from me boehoe sad little me. At least this post is an eye opener, now hoping that I will do something good with it.
Jeremy Myers says
Taco,
We all struggle with this, especially in our online “social” world which is not so social.
Bernard Shuford says
I’ve “said” for years that we’re ALL hypocrites. The more we try to deny it, the more hypocritical we are. Realizing it is the first step. However, it’s a journey I don’t know that we’ll ever conquer. We’re trapped, like Paul, in knowing we’re imperfect and simultaneously realizing that we are called to reach for the standard that Jesus set. Often we resolve that to ourselves by looking only at externals, which is deadly. I can LOOK like a Christian pretty easily.
It’s the heart that I can’t effing fix.
Jeremy Myers says
Bernard,
Very true. The recognition that we are simultaneously sinners and saints helps keep us humble and moving forward at the same time.
Ant Writes says
Wow..another three were pointing back at me.
Jeremy Myers says
Yes, but I know you are working on it. Keep it up!
MICHAEL AGBOZO says
michael agbozo support bernard shufud indeed we are hypocrite
Jeremy Myers says
Michael,
Yes, Bernard made a great point. Thanks for the comment.
Scrollwork says
I feel very unChristian right now because I stooped to the level of a blog troll commenting on my blog by calling him/her a name he/she had called me. So I head over here hoping for the equivalent of a shower to feel clean again, and instead I get what God thinks I need, not what I thought I wanted. Ouch! But thanks!
Jeremy Myers says
I love blog trolls! They bring out the best in all of us!