A well-known pastor and author from Texas tells a fictional story in one of his books of a bunch of candles that were in a storage closet. One night, there was an electrical storm, and the electricity in the house went out.
So the husband went to the candles to get them to provide light during the darkness, but the candlesโwhich could talkโall had excuses for why they couldnโt leave the closet, or why they couldnโt give off light.
One said that it needed more preparation. He didnโt want to make mistakes when he finally was sent to light a room, and so it was studying to be the best candle it could be. He said he was in a great study on wind resistance, had just listened to a series on wick build-up and conservation and was getting ready to read a best-selling book on flame display called Waxing Eloquently.
The second candle claimed to be busy meditating. He said that he was meditating on the importance of light and that he couldnโt be disturbed because it was so โฆ enlightening.
A third claimed that he wasnโt stable enough and had to get his life together before he tried to light any rooms. He said his main problem was that he had a short temper and people thought he was a hothead.
The fourth candle was a female, and said that while she would like to help, lighting the darkness wasnโt really her gift. She was a singer, and her responsibility was to encourage the other candles so they would go out and light the darkness. To reveal her gift, she immediately launched into a beautiful rendition of โThis little light of mine.โ
All the other candles began to sing as well, and nothing the owner could do would make them stop.
When the husband asked his wife where she had picked up the candles, she said, โOh, theyโre church candles. Remember the church that closed down across town? I bought them there.โ[1]
Candles that wonโt shine. Tragic. I wonder if that is how God sometimes views us.
We should be like the advertisements on the radio for a certain hotel chain telling us that theyโll leave a light on for us.
Christians are supposed to be like that. Always allowing our light to shineโto be seen by those in darkness. To provide light for those in the storm. To be a lighthouse for those who need to see the way safely to shore.
But too often we cover our lights, or let them burn out, or simply refuse to be light.
More tragically still, rather than contribute to the light, rather than showing people the way to God, we sometimes join in the deeds of darkness.
We tend to pick and choose when we want our light to shine and when we donโt. We want it to shine at church, but not at work. We want it to shine in the Bible study, but not at the neighborhood picnic. We want it to shine when we sing along to the radio in our car, but not when somebody cuts us off while we are driving.
But imagine for a moment, what would happen in other areas of our lives if we decided that sometimes we wanted the light to shine and other times not. Imagine what would happen on the highways if sometimes people drove at night with their lights on, and other times they didnโt.
Imagine what would happen if the runway manager at an airport decided to turn the runway lights off for a few hours every night when planes were trying to land.
Imagine how hard it would be to get around your house, if some rooms were lit, but others were not.
If we lived these ways, our lives would be full of terrible disasters. But that is how some of us live our Christian lives. That is how some of us treat the light of the truth that we are each responsible for.
We think we can turn it on and off and not suffer the consequences, but we are wrong. Anytime a light is supposed to be shining but is not, disaster results.
Which is what Paul is going to tell us today in Ephesians 5. In this section of Ephesians, Paul is explaining how to imitate God our Father.
Previously, we saw that since God is love, we need to walk in love. Christ is the perfect picture of love, and the world is the perfect perversion of love. We need to love as Christ loves, not as the world loves. That was explained in Ephesians 5:1-6.
In Ephesians 5:7-14, Paul discusses the next characteristic of God we need to imitate. We are to imitate God by walking in the light.
Ephesians 5:7-14. Therefore do not be partakers with them. For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. Therefore He says: โAwake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.โ
Letโs begin with Ephesians 5:7.
Walk in the Light (Ephesians 5:7-8)
Ephesians 5:7. Therefore do not be partakers with them.
Paul is again pointing us back to what he has just said. In Ephesians 5:1-6, he has talked about fornicators, unclean people, covetous men and those who deceive others with empty words.
We talked about these behaviors in the previous study of Ephesians 5:1-6.
And now, in transition, Paul tells us to not be partakers with them. In other words, do not share with them in their actions. Do not participate with them.
Some misunderstand such a verse to mean that we should not join with the world in anything they do. That we should not have non-Christians as business partners and that we should not hire non-Christians as employees, and that we should not be friends with non-Christians.
That is not true at all. Paul is not even thinking about avoiding all contact or connections with non-Christians. If we avoided all contact with non-Christians, we could never be a light to them. And in this passage, he is inviting us to be lights. He is saying that in regard the sinful ways of the world, donโt join with them; but do hang out with and be friends with non-believers so that you can be a light to them.
Be a friend to those in the world, but donโt befriend their sin.
The word here for partakers is the Greek word summetochoi, and it means to partner with or to be a companion with someone.
One of the reasons we should not partner with the world in its sin, is because as Christians we are already partners with Christ. Throughout Scripture, this word is used to describe Christians as partners with Christ. As Christians, we share in the responsibility and reward that is due Christ.
So if, as partners with Christ, we decide to partner with the world in its sinful behavior, we have betrayed our partnership with Christ.
Here in Ephesians 5:7, Paul calls us to avoid joining the world in its false forms of love, which we saw in Ephesians 5:1-6, and now in Ephesians 5:7-14, he calls us to not partner with the world in its deeds of darkness.
Look at Ephesians 5:8.
Ephesians 5:8. For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light
Darkness is the way we once used to walk. Darkness is how to describe our lives before we were Christians. Futile. Empty. Devoid of meaning and significance. The people who live by their flesh alone are people who walk in darkness, in ignorance, without knowledge of the truth about themselves, about God, and about reality. They are enslaved to their passions and illusions.
In Ephesians 2, Paul describes it as a walk that was according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air. We conducted ourselves in the lusts of the flesh and of the mind.
But now you are light in the Lord. What a change has come upon us! What a glorious transformation!
Just as God said into the darkness, โLet there be lightโ so He has also brought light to the dark lives which we once lead.
And not only has His light shined upon our livesโfor it shines upon all those who are still aliveโbut we have personally been transformed into light as well. The text says, you are light.
We once were darkness, but now we are light. Once we were sinners, now we are saints.
This transformation from darkness to light is critically important for properly and fully living the life we are meant to live. By becoming light, we awaken to the work that God is doing within us so that we shine with His light, as He Himself is light.
Paul does say, after all, that we are light in the Lord. We are light because He is light, and He is in us and we are in Him, shining our light to the world.
Therefore, at the end of Ephesians 5:8, we should walk as children of light. As children of God, we should walk in love as God is loveโthat is what we saw in Ephesians 5:1-6. Now, also since God is light, we should walk as children of light as we try to imitate God.
One thing I want say about light, which is very interesting, is that light by itself is not light. There is constant light streaming through the entire galaxy, but when you look into the night sky, you see only darkness. Why? Because light itself is invisible. Light only appears as light when it shines upon something that is dark. Light is only seen when it hits a planet, a moon, or other particles of mass the sky so that the light can illuminate what it interacts with. This is how light exposes the darkness.
What this means, therefore, is that if you want to be light, you have to shine it on something dark. It doesnโt do a whole lot of good as a follower of Jesus to be light in your church, or your family, or where everyone else is light also. For your light to truly shine before men, you must be where the darkness is. Only in this way will your light shine before men so that they can see your good works and so glorify God.
Having told us to walk in the light, Paul wants to shed some light on the subject, and so he tells us what light looks like in Ephesians 5:9-10.
The Appearance of Light (Ephesians 5:9-10)
Ephesians 5:9-10. (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.
If you have the NIV or the NAS translations of the Bible, your text reads, for the fruit of the light, but I said for the fruit of the Spirit. There is a textual variant here in the Greek. Some manuscripts say light while others say Spirit.
I personally think the original word here was Spirit, but it really doesnโt matter. In the end, the idea is the same.
Children of light live in such a way that it reveals goodness, righteousness and truth.
We all know what these words mean and I would even venture to say that we all know whether we are living according to these words or not. So nothing much needs to be said about them except that goodness and righteousness are the exact opposite of fornication, uncleanness and covetousness mentioned in Ephesians 5:3 and truth is the exact opposite of the deception mentioned in Ephesians 5:6.
These words are also further ways to describe the character of God who is light.
Together, the terms describe the fullness of God, the expressions of His light shining through us. Those who exhibit these virtues reveal an inner transformation that has its source in the divine light of God.
So, if we are going to live as children of light, we need to live like the God who is light. Since He lives in goodness, righteousness and truth, so must we.
According to Ephesians 5:10, this is what is acceptable to the Lord.
I want to talk about that phrase finding out in Ephesians 5:10 though. The word is dokimazo, and means โto examine closely. To discover.โ
This is a call to seek wisdom and knowledge of God and ourselves. To know God and to know ourselves. To discerning the true will of the true God beyond the dark and deceptive laws and ideas of this world. This involves introspective contemplation and rejection of worldly attachments.
We are to find out what is acceptable to God by using the light He has provided and taking it into the shadows of our own life and the dark places of this world so that we might fight even more light.
Imagine that you love to explore caves in the hopes of discovering gold and jewels. What do you need? Thatโs rightโlight!
Imagine that youโre a scientist, and you want to examine something closely in a microscopeโwhat do you need? Thatโs rightโlight!
Imagine you love art, and you go to an art gallery to look at the paintings, what is over each painting so that you can look at it better? Thatโs rightโlight!
Light is so important for nearly everything we do in life, and in every area, when you are seeking precious truths, you need light to find more truth, more precious stones, more change, more success in becoming who you really are.
A while back I was working in the basement of my house. At one point, because I was doing quite a bit of pounding on a certain wall, I must have broken the filament in the light bulb, because it went out.
Do you think I just went on working in the dark? No! I would have hammered my hand instead of the nail. I stopped what I was doing, and I went and got a new light bulb so I could see.
When Paul tells us here to find out what is acceptable to the Lord, he is telling us to use the light that we have to closely examine and search and discover. And where is it that we closely examine and search and discover Godโs will? Yes, the Word of God as illuminated by the indwelling Holy Spirit.
Psalm 119:105 says that it is a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path. And as we study and read and meditate upon the Word of God, the Holy Spirit illuminates our mind and our thoughts to understand and apply that light to our lives.
That is what Paul is telling us to do in Ephesians 5:10. Use the light that is from God, to study the light of the Word of God, and in so doing, we will discover what is acceptable to God, and when we do it, we too will become lights to the world.
Some Christians wonder why the light of Christianity seems to be dimming in this world. There is only one explanation. It is because we have stopped learning about the light of Godโs Word and obeying it. Only those who study the light and obey the light will be light.
But letโs move on. If Ephesians 5:9-10 told us how to live as light, Ephesians 5:11-12 tell us how not to live. He tells us what darkness looks like.
The Appearance of Darkness (Ephesians 5:11-12)
Ephesians 5:11-12. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret.
Ephesians 5:11 tells us to have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them.
The word here for fellowship is similar to the word for partakers in Ephesians 5:8, so Paul is saying something similar here. Donโt partake with them in what they do, and donโt fellowship with them in what they do.
Again, this does not mean that we should not be friends with them or be around them, but rather that we should just not join them in what they do.
Paul describes what they do here as unfruitful works of darkness. This phrase is a complete contrast to the fruit mentioned in Ephesians 5:9. The works of darkness are not good, they are not righteous, and they are anything but truthful.
The fruitless deeds of darkness represent actions rooted in ignorance, materialism, and obedience to the false order of this world.
And then at the end of Ephesians 5:11, Paul tells us to expose them.
Now if this is where the passage stopped, it would be okay for us to get into all the nitty-gritty details of how sinful and depraved and wicked some men and women can be. We could talk for endless hours about the unrighteous acts of immorality which people are mired in. We could talk about the horrors and the inhuman acts some people are capable of performing.
If Ephesians 5:11 was by itself, that is what we would do. After all, how else can we expose these works of darkness other than by talking about them? Other than by informing one another about them?
But look again at Ephesians 5:12.
Ephesians 5:12. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret.
So now we have a problem. We are supposed to expose these things, but we are not supposed to talk about them! It is shameful even to speak of those things which by them in secret.
How are we to expose them without speaking about them? Especially in todayโs society when the motto seems to be, โTell it like it is!โ[2]
Does Paul realize what he is asking us to do here? Telling us to expose the darkness, but not talk about it is almost like saying, โVacuum the room, but donโt use a vacuum cleanerโ or โPaint this wall, but you canโt have paint.โ
This is a problem, isnโt it?
Well, donโt worry. Paul knew what he was writing. He realized what he was saying. And besides that, he was inspired by the Holy Spirit to write this, and the Holy Spirit doesnโt contradict Himself (cf. Rom 16:19).
There is one way, and one way only, to expose the deeds of darkness without having to talk about them. Do you want to know what it is?
The Application of Light (Ephesians 5:13-14)
Ephesians 5:13 But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light.
I donโt know about you, but manifest isnโt a word I use much, so to help me understand this verse, I like to substitute in the word โvisible.โ
But all things that are exposed are made [visible] by the lightโฆ
Do you want to expose some sort of sinful behavior? All you have to do is shine. If the room is dark, talking about the darkness and trying to explain the darkness wonโt help anyone see in the darkness. It does no good to talk about the darkness and walk around in the darkness.
To expose the darkness, we donโt live in the darkness. Rather, we simply shine the light on it. When Godโs divine light touches the ignorant, it brings light into their life, potentially turning them into light themselves.
Jesus says the obvious in John 12:35, but sometimes we need to be reminded of it. He says that โhe who walks around in darkness does not know where he is going.โ When was the last time you walked around in a dark room? By this, however, Jesus does not mean we should avoid walking in darkness altogether. What He means is that we should take our light into the darkness so that it is no longer dark!
There is a vast difference between walking in darkness with a light and walking in darkness without a light. God wants us to go to the darkness and bring a light with us.
If itโs a room that you have never seen before in the light, you stumble into things, you walk into walls, you trip over furniture. And thatโs the way it is for Christians who try to expose the darkness of this world by living in the darkness.
I think Iโve mentioned him before, but I had a friend in college when I was at Montana State who wanted to reach his friends for Christ, but they went out and got drunk every weekend. So he thought that in order to understand them better and get them to trust him more, he too had to go out and get drunk with them.
It didnโt work โฆ because that was walking in darkness, not revealing the light. You donโt have to become drunk in order to expose drunkenness. You donโt have to watch that certain kind of movies in order to have something to talk about with your co-workers.
These kinds of arguments are like saying that you have to become a homosexual or a prostitute in order to minister to them. Or that you have to become addicted to drugs to work with drug abusers!
Noโyou do not reveal the darkness by becoming darkness yourself. Darkness if revealed only when the lights come on. If the room is dark, turn the lights on!
How? How do you turn the lights on in this world? Through speaking the truth and living the truth. Paul says here in Ephesians 5:13 that whatever makes manifest or visible is light.
Some people get all caught up in the philosophical question of โWhat is truth?โ They understand that in regard to some morals what is true in one part of the world may not be true in another, or how something is done in one place may be done completely different somewhere else.
And so they begin to think that truth is relative and that there are no absolute truths, which, by the way, is a contradictory statement.
But asking โWhat is truth?โ is like asking โWhat is light?โ Scientists can get all technical about the qualities, characteristics and behavior of lightโyou know how it behaves like particles and a wave, and how if you approach the speed of light, time slows down and on and on.
But do you notice what Paul says here at the end of Ephesians 5:13? He defines light in a way everybody can understand. He says, โHey, light is what makes things visible.โ
If you are a living light in this world, it will be super obvious to everybody around you because when you are around, they can see things more clearly. And you understand that I donโt mean that they can physically see things more clearly.
I mean that when you are around, it becomes obvious to others what is right and wrong. They start watching the words that come out of their mouths. They start controlling sinful behaviors. In other words, their deeds of darkness are exposed by the light of the truth that shines forth from your life.
You allow the Word of God to light your path. You allow the truth to fill your life. You walk in the light as He is in the light. You let your light so shine before men that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father, who is in heaven.
Maybe some of you donโt really understand what I am talking about here. Maybe you have never personally seen the light of the truth shine forth from your life to expose the darkness in this world.
If that is true of you, then Ephesians 5:14 is for you.
Ephesians 5:14. Therefore He says: โAwake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.โ
Iโm glad none of you are sleeping through the sermon this morning, or I would have had to personalize this verse for youโฆAwake! You who sleep!
Paul seems to be quoting Scripture here, but no verse in Scripture says exactly this. There are a few verses which say something similar (Isa 26:19; 60:1), but it is not an exact quotation from anything we know of.
So, it seems most likely that what Paul is quoting from here is an early hymn sung by the first Christiansโvery likely at their baptism. Or, maybe it was something said to new Christians when they were baptized.
You know, today, we say before they go into the water something along the lines of, โBased on your testimony of faith in Jesus Christ for salvation, I now baptize you in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.โ
Some scholars and historians though, seem to think that Paul is quoting here from something that was said to the believer as soon as they come up out of the water.
Baptism by immersion is a picture of death, burial and resurrection to new life in Christ. So when the believer came up out of the water, they would be told, Awake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.
Now that does not mean that automatically, just because someone is baptized, they will all of a sudden be a light to the world. No, baptism is just the first step in becoming a serious disciple of Jesus Christ.
And when Paul quotes this saying here, it would take every Christian back to the day when they were baptized. They would remember the resolutions they had made. They would remember the decision to change their lives and to live for Christ. They would remember that they had determined to walk the path of discipleship.
But some of them had gone back to sleep. Some of them became relationally dead again. Those who continued to sleep as Christians were carnal in the sense that they did not have a growing fellowship with God.
Thatโs not the way it should be. Baptism is the first step of an exciting adventureโnot an opportunity to press the โsnoozeโ button. Some people seem to get baptized and then say โWell, good. I got that out of the way. Now Iโll go back to living the way I lived before.โ
No! Baptism is stepping out and saying โI want to be different. I want to show the world what God can do through me. I want to be used by Christ. I want to be light!โ
Baptism is just that first step on the exciting life of being a disciple of Christ.
People are trapped in darkness and they donโt see a way out because there is no light to help them find a way. We are called to go into the darkness and shine our light into it so that we can bring more of life into light, and also wake up the sleepers and the dead who are there, so that they too can be delivered from darkness and start walking in the full light of Godโs love and wisdom.
As Paul indicates at the end of verse 14, this is what Jesus first did for us. He came to this earth and was our light, showing us the way out of darkness, so that we too can be light to others. This spiritual awakening allows us to join with God in redeeming this earth and becoming who He truly wants us to be.
So Ephesians 5:7-14 is about how to be disciples of Jesus Christ. It is only when we grow as disciples that we become light in this world.
Ephesians 5:7-14 calls us to reject the shadows of ignorance and embrace the radiant light of divine truth. This world, though it is filled with beauty and wonder, nevertheless lies in darkness. And people who do not understand thing of the soul or of the spirit, live only in materialistic pursuits, which lead them to live in a realm of illusion, deception, and spiritual slumber. As Paul states elsewhere, such people are fleshly, caring only about the concerns and desires of the body.
But we have the light of Godโs knowledge, insight, and wisdom within us, the fullness of God that fill us and guides us in every way.
So Paul urges us to choose. Rather than live in the darkness, we are called to walk in the light. To turn away from the empty pursuits of the material worldโgreed, pride, and fleeting pleasuresโand seek the eternal wisdom that illuminates our souls and unites us with God in our spirit.
Paul calls us to wake up! Rise up! To shine like the lights that we are! We must realize the truth of who we are in Christ, as children of God. We must become who we truly are, who God made us to be.
The light of God is already within you. This week, commit to awakening from the slumber of this world. Set aside time each day to reflect on the goodness and glory that is around you. Listen for the inner voice of God that calls you to be who He made you be. Listen for the whisper of divine truth, and reflect on what illusions you might be holding on to which keep you from seeing and being the light that God wants to shine through you.
Maybe it is wealth, or status, or fear, that is holding you back from embracing your divine nature. Name them, expose them to the light, and let them dissolve in the presence of truth.
Awake, O sleeper! The light of God within you longs to shine, not only in your life, but also through your life into the life of others. Step boldly into the light of the knowledge of God, and let your life be a beacon of truth in this world of shadows. Answer the call to awaken, and to let your light shine before others.
Notes on Ephesians 5:7-14
[1] Max Lucado, God Came Near (Portland: Multnomah, 1987), 113-117.
[2] Wiersbe, 46.
[3] Mark Mittelberg, Building a Contagious Church (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2000), 247-342.
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