This is a guest post by Sam Riviera and is a follow-up post to “How to Win Souls… or Not.” He spends most of his time and energy caring for others in his community so that through his life and actions they might see Jesus. He has also written “14 Reasons I Never Returned to the Institutional Church.“
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Growing up attending a conservative evangelical church, I was taught that I should invite the “unsaved” to church so they could hear the Gospel preached and have a chance to “get saved.” If they didn’t respond, at least they’d had a chance. It would be their fault if they ended up in hell. I had done “my part.”
After my wife and I married and began attending another conservative evangelical church, we were surprised to learn that “personal evangelism” was the new fad. Somehow the responsibility for getting people saved had landed squarely in our laps. We were told a few people were occasionally getting saved at the end of a sermon at church, but that plan wasn’t working well. Therefore, it was now our personal responsibility to “lead our unsaved friends, family members and neighbors to the Lord.”
Most of us Are Failures at Personal Evangelism
Some churches may still emphasize personal evangelism, but I have rarely heard the term mentioned in the past twenty years. Most of us have never “led anyone to the Lord.” So we’d prefer not to be told we should. If our church tries to pressure us in this way, we can always find another church.
What About Proverbs 11:30?
However, doesn’t Proverbs 11:30 tell us “He that winneth souls is wise”? Should we understand this to mean it is our responsibility to win souls, our responsibility to lead people to the Lord?
Not everyone understands the verse to mean that. Matthew Henry commented “The righteous are as trees of life; and their influence upon earth, like the fruits of that tree, support and nourish the spiritual life in many.”
Providence Baptist’s online Bible study course teaches “Some build a whole system of theology on this verse, believing that they can win men to Christ by their own powers of persuasion. But nowhere else in the Bible is this taught…. ‘Winneth’ is nowhere else so rendered. The Hebrew word appears over 1050 times and is most commonly rendered ‘taketh’ or ‘taketh away’…. Truly God’s people are to witness of Him to others, but the Spirit alone can win them to Christ.”
Some would frame the discussion in terms of Calvinism (only the Spirit can win people to Christ) versus Arminianism (we must lead or win people to Christ), but I think of those two viewpoints as “the two horns of a dilemma” (in this case an either/or proposition). Must it be “either/or?” Is there another way?
Love – An Alternative
Rather than look at “soul winning” in terms of a theological argument, I look at it in terms of what I have observed as a follower of Jesus. Those I know who also follow Jesus, regardless of whether or not they grew up in church, believe that Jesus, through his Spirit, drew them to him. Sermons, Bible studies, perhaps even a theological argument may have been a part of the process. However, the love of Jesus, often shown to them by his followers, was often an even more important part of the process.
I don’t need to be able to argue the Bible or theology. I don’t need to be able to present the “plan of salvation.” I don’t need to know the four or forty, or however many there are, spiritual laws. I don’t need to be a “good closer.” I don’t need to be able to preach a fantastic sermon that will convince people.
As a follower of Jesus, however, I do need to heed his words to love the people in my world, my “neighbors” – Not just the people on my block, but everyone I come in contact with – with his love. He will draw people to himself, not I. Perhaps he can use the love he has shown them through me, along with other things, as part of the process. However, it is he, not I, who draws people to himself.
I am able to love people. That I can do. As he has loved me, I am able to love others. Maybe I’m not great at it, but I can love others with the love he has shown me. That’s pretty much what my life as his follower is all about.
How about you?
badassbadboy says
So if people never heard of Jesus and accept that Jesus died for our sins, do they go to hell? I cannot see all go to hell who have not accepted Jesus. The aborigine that never heard of Jesus. Or do people in Japan, that live good lives, respecting people, and repent when they thought they did bad go to hell because they did not listen to the missionaries when they came? I heard some say that is why the tsunami hit them. Give me a break, God can’t be that cruel. Something just does not jive. Any explanation?
Sam says
Even though it’s in the title and the first paragraph, this post really isn’t about hell. Some churches and Christians teach that it is our responsibility to win others to Christ and thereby “save sinners from hell”. I find that Jesus told us to love others. We love. The Spirit must win them to Christ.
Is there a literal hell? Do people who never heard of Jesus go there? – I have thoughts on both sides of these issues, and at this time I’m undecided.
What does a loving God do with people who do not recognize that he came in flesh because he loves them? – I know this issue really gets some people stirred up. If they’re worried, then are they confident they won’t go to hell? Are they showing Christ’s love to others, so that those people might see Jesus? Throwing Bible verses and Christian theology at a Buddhist rarely works. It might irritate them, but doesn’t show them the love of Jesus.
Jeremy Myers says
Sam,
Thanks for weighing in here. It sometimes takes me a week or two to respond to comments, and am happy when you help out with the conversation.
I think you shared my view pretty well. Ultimately, I fall back onto the love of Jesus, and know that whatever happens to people who have not heard (and even people who have heard, but rejected Jesus), it will be full of grace, love, and mercy. If this includes burning forever in a fiery torment, Jesus is going to have to do some heavy explaining…