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You Gotta Love that Sh*t

By Jeremy Myers
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You Gotta Love that Sh*t

church planting I have been a long time reader of Chris Elrod’s blog, and he recently announced his departure from the blogosphere. To say goodbye, I am posting one of his final posts below that all church planters (and all who are followers of Jesus), should read. I strongly encourage you to also go and browse his archives (which are still active).

You will be missed Chris! (2014 Update… It looks like he’s back)

You Gotta Love that Sh*t
by Chris Elrod

Curse words are just words โ€ฆ but oh what a tapestry of division they can weave.  

Recently I was meeting in a restaurant with some other church leaders.  Sitting near us were two truck drivers that were cussing up a storm in their conversation.  In between f-words and a-words one of the guys said REAL LOUDโ€ฆ โ€œYou gotta love that sh*t!โ€  

That was the final straw for one of the pastors at our table and he asked the waitress if we could move to a different location โ€ฆ because he was offended by the language of the men.  

Thatโ€™s when it hit me โ€ฆ some people are offended by cussing โ€ฆ but itโ€™s music to my ears.  When I hear cussing โ€ฆ I hear people far from God.  When I hear people far from God โ€ฆ I hear an opportunity to make an impact for the Kingdom of God.

I seriously donโ€™t understand โ€œleadersโ€ that plant churches that appeal to themselves.  I donโ€™t understand โ€œleadersโ€ that plant churches to reach other church people.  I really donโ€™t understand โ€œleadersโ€ that plant churches with no real heart to reach people far from God.

Donโ€™t get me wrong โ€ฆ reaching people far from God is messy.  

They cuss โ€ฆ they have serious issues โ€ฆ they smell โ€ฆ they drink โ€ฆ they live lifestyles that are at times really repulsive.  Reaching people far God also means going to places that church folks have been taught not to go.  People FAR from God do not hang out in Starbucks or Junior League meetings โ€ฆ they hang out in bars, porn shops, downtown streets, bowling allies, courtrooms, emergency rooms, and R-rated movies.  

Itโ€™s not easy โ€ฆ itโ€™s not pleasant โ€ฆ itโ€™s not always rewarding.  

However, reaching people far from God with the Gospel of Jesus Christ is what the Father called us to do.

I know that quite a few potential church planters read my blog so let me say this to you:

If you donโ€™t want to do ministry that is messy โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church.  

If you just want to โ€œfeed the saintsโ€ โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church.  

If you just want to stop having to take orders from your current pastor โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church.  

If you just got fired, let go or laid off from a ministry position โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church.  

If you are still trying to impress seminary professors with your preaching skills โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church.  

In fact, if you think planting a church is cool โ€ฆ donโ€™t plant a church. 

If you think those things, itโ€™s probably going to be best for you to get a job in your state denominational office โ€ฆ where itโ€™s safe, thereโ€™s a steady paycheck and you only have to interact with other Christians.

On the other hand…

… if you love the smell of vomit and beer 

โ€ฆ if you love to hear about peopleโ€™s addictions 

โ€ฆ if you love hearing the f-bomb dropped by every member of a family (including kids) 

โ€ฆ if you love people wearing halter tops and Budweiser t-shirts in the Sunday service 

โ€ฆ if you love people putting three dollars cash in the offering plate and crossing their arms during worship 

โ€ฆ if you love getting 3 a.m. marriage counseling calls 

โ€ฆ then by all means โ€ฆ plant a church.  

Iโ€™m not talking about you liking that stuff โ€ฆ Iโ€™m talking about โ€ฆ you gotta love that sh*t!!!

Church planting done right is messy โ€ฆ and attracts messy people.  

If you donโ€™t have a passion for the mess โ€ฆ if you donโ€™t hear someone cussing and think, โ€œThat person is a potential guest for my churchโ€ โ€ฆ if you donโ€™t wake up every day with an unquenchable thirst to see people far from God come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior โ€ฆ church planting is going to be a miserable experience for you!!!

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Church planting, Discipleship, evangelism, missional

New York Church Planting

By Jeremy Myers
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Though the reason I came to New York is for a government job, I am convinced that one reason I am up here is for “church planting.” I won’t do this at work, of course!ย First and foremost, I will be a good employee.

However, after work, one of the things I want toย do is plantย a church. So in a sense, I’m church planting on the government’s dime! This kind of church planting does not require any fundraising. Inย a sense, since I am a government employee, all of you who pay federal taxes are technically supporting my church planting efforts. So thank you! I appreciate your generosity!

Anyway, I have already realized that it would be nearly impossible to plant a typical church inย area of New York. In fact, as I meet more and more people, I am convinced even more that the only kind of church that will make any progress at all up here, is the type of church that most Christians would not consider “church.”ย It wouldn’t even be similar to what has come to be called “house church.” Iย doubt we would ever have a “church service” or have any paid “staff.” There will probably not ever be a “church building” or any sort of “church programs.” Definitely no bulletins, songbooks, Sunday school classes, overhead projectors, worship teams, or websites. We would not give ourselves a “church name.” I am convinced that the less “churchy”ย we are,ย the better we will do as the church in this area.

We would be so unchurchy, that most of the people in the church would probably not even know we are “church.”

Is that possible?

Right now, the church consists of five people (not that I’m counting numbers! ha ha): myself, my wife, and our three girls. This next year or two, we are going to focus on loving and serving each other, and loving and serving one or two of the families in our immediate neighborhood (within 100 yards of us). There will be no strings attached. We just want to love and serve.

Some people will say, “That’s not church planting! That’s just following Jesus’ instructions for believers!” Yep. I believe that if we follow Jesus, we will naturally be the church. And wherever the church is, the church gets planted. That is my entire “church planting strategy.” Simple. Organic. Reproducible.

Will this strategy result in a mega-church? Nope. But that’s not my goal. My goal is to change lives, and that gets done one person at a time.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Bible Study

New York Churches

By Jeremy Myers
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I am fairly new to the New York church scene (10 days!). So far, here are my observations:

1. Unlike Dallas, mega churches are not on every corner. In fact, I have yet to see a single mega church. To the contrary, I doubt most of the churches I have seen could fit more than 100 people. Though I knew Dallas was a bit of an anomaly, it still amazes me how different the rest of the world is. (By the way, if you are thinking of planting a church in Dallas, I recommend you reconsider.)

2. Of the churches I have seen, the vast majority seem to be of the “mainline” category – Methodist, Presbyterian, Catholic, etc.

3. I have met three Christians among my fellow employees at my new job. Within 30 seconds of our conversation,ย all three let me know they were “Hyper Calvinists.”

4. I have had a coupleย “religious” conversations with other people in the area (though I consider all interactions with all people to be spiritual). Bothย people were essentially atheistic or agnostic.

5. Since my job is with the federal government, I have kept my ears open for hints as to how the government views “religion.” My initial assessment is that the average government employee up here agrees with Karl Marx, who said that “religion is the opiate of the masses.” In other words, religion is a government-approved drug toย help keep people happy. It is not really for those who “have their life together” but for those who need a little help to hobble along, or a little hope to keep them going.

Tomorrow, I will post my initialย thoughts about church planting in this area.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Theology of the Church

Job Update

By Jeremy Myers
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I have a job update for you. No, this is not another post about the book of Job, but instead about a place of employment. I know a lot of you have been following my job pilgrimage, so I wanted toย let you know…

I got a jobย working for Obama!

Not really…it’s actually a job with the Federal Government…so it’sย kind of for Obama (orย Bush until Jan 20).ย I’m pretty excited aboutย the jobย in a lot of ways, and interestingly enough, all that I’ve gone through during the past 3 years (and especially the last year) has actually prepared me pretty well for the requirements of this job. In some ways, it is only because of what I’ve gone through that I was able to get this job.

I can’t tell you what the job is, because if I did, I’d have to kill you. Ha ha! No, it’s nothing so serious as that, but it is somewhat sensitive, and so I can’t post it on a public blog. I can tell you that the job is in New York state, and I start on Monday! If any of you live in the New York area, please let me know, because I have never been there, and I have no idea what to expect. Also, I need some tips on how to survive the New York economy. (From what I can tell, things are EXPENSIVE up there).

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Discipleship

Job Problem (Tentative) Solution – Part III

By Jeremy Myers
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In the first several posts of this series I raised the question about how God deals with Job in the book of Job, why I am asking the question in the first place, and some of my preliminary thoughts on a possible solution. In this final post, I will state the tentative solution itself. Of course, some of the recent comments on the previous posts have been making me rethink even this tentative solution. You all are awesome!

Tentative Solution

The primary problem we seem to have with how God treats Job is that Job doesn’t know what is going on. It would be one thing if Job were in on the divine wager: “Psst…Hey Job! God here. I’m gonna teach that pesky Satan a lesson, and I need to use you.ย You’ll probably lose everything, including your kids, get real sick, and everyone will tell you just to curse me, but hang in there, and I’ll reward you. What do you think? Shhh! Here comes Satan!ย Wink once for yes, twice for no!”

If that had been the case, and Job had agreed, we might view Job as more of a hero than a victim. (Of course, there would then be the issue of Job being willing to let his kids die…but we’ll leave that alone). People all the time are asked to do hard things for the family, or their country, sometimes at great personal cost. If they agree, they are rightfully viewed and treated as heroes.

So if Job was really God’s champion as I suggested in the previous post, then why didn’t God let Job know what was going on?

The reason, I believe, is that He couldn’t! To tell Job what was going to happen to him would be cheating. Satan, if he found out about it (which he probably would have – he’s a crafty creature), would have cried “foul!” He could have accused God of stacking the deck. (Bullet pointed out that God’s foreknowledge kind of does this too. It’s an interesting point. However, notice that Satan didn’t seem to think that God knew what Job was going to choose. Hmmmm…).

So the problem is that to truly be a champion for the challenge that Satan proposes, Job must necessarily be ignorant of what is going on behind the scenes. God cannot tell Job what is going on, because that would ruin the terms of the challenge.

Here is one possible solution: Since the Bible clearly reveals that we are in a war, anyone who chooses to follow God knows that he or she may be called up to the front lines. When one chooses to follow God, they are, in a sense, enlisting in God’s army, or at the bare minimum, signing up for the Army Reserves. And just like in the Army, those who serve in the hardest areas move up in rank and responsibility. The higher you go, the harder your assignments get.

All of us who follow God need to have this sort of mentality. I think Job had this mentality. I doubt he became “the most righteous man on the face of the earth” through a life of ease and comfort. He (like Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, David, and the Prophets) probably became the man he was through many toils, trials, and troubles.

So when it came time for God to choose a champion, He had a good man for the job (pun intended). Job didn’t know exactly what was going on, but I believe He knew that whatever God was doing, it was part of the ongoing war, and the best thing Job could do was remain loyal.ย So Job is truly a hero after all.

Some Final Thoughts

I know this answer is not fully satisfactory. That’s why it’s tentative.

However, with this perspective on the book of Job, I am now viewing the bookย as a paradigm for human history. In some sense, weย could beย aย grand “experiment” to answer some Satanic challenge to God. Maybe God created humans just to prove something to Satan (I’m not sure what), and be a lesson to angels (fallen and unfallen). If so, then we are God’s champions, and part of the fight is that God cannot let us in on the terms of the wager lest it affect our behavior and thus, the outcome.

In a similar way, Job is also the Bible in summary. In the Garden, all things were at peace, and Adam and Eve enjoyed life. Then Satan shows up and destroys everything. At the end of the book (both Job and the Bible), everything is restored – even better than it was before! In the meantime, there are tests, trials, and people coming around to tell us to just curse God and die.

Well, that’s all for now. It is 11:55pm, so although this post needs lots of polishing and editing (and probablyย lots of clarification),ย I’m headed for bed.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Bible Study, Discipleship

Job Problems (Tentative) Solution – Part II

By Jeremy Myers
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Many peopleย have difficulties with how God treats Job in the opening chapters of the book of Job. I raised some of these questions is my opening post of of this series, and then last time, explained why I was asking these questions in the first place.ย Now I want to begin to propose a solution to this dilemma. This post contains some backgroundย premises that form the basis to my tentative solution. I will post the conclusion tomorrow.

Theย Background Premises

First, I do believe that the events described in the book of Job truly did happen in history. However, if you believe Job is simply a parable, a story of fiction to make a point, I won’t argue with you. However, since I also believe the Bible is inspired by God, even ifย Job is just a story, I still have to ask why Godย inspired the author to write the story in the first place.ย We stillย have to ask ourselves what the story saysย about how God deals with humans, and what is going on behind the scenes in some (but not all) of the tragedies and difficulties of human life. In a way, the author is trying to answer the question, “Why do bad things happen to good people?”

Second,ย I do believe (as some of the comments noted) that the book of Job is the earliest book of the Bible. It was probably written during the reign of King David or King Solomon, but had an oral tradition that went way back to before the time of Abraham. This is important because I believe (as I think Flo pointed out), that in a way, the entire rest of theย Bible was written to provide an answer for the questions raised by the book of Job. This means that if you have problems with how God treats Job, you are reading the book correctly! If you don’t have problems with how God treats Job, let me suggest you have a poor view of what kind of a God we worship!ย I believe the bookย is supposed raise questions about God and His dealings with His creation. And the answers to these questions are found in the rest of Scripture.

Third, one my favorite things to study is the historical/cultural background of the books of the Bible.ย  Reading Job from this perspective, it seems that the opening chapters of Job are like a call for champions from two warring tribes.ย In the Ancient Near East (ANE), sometimes battles could be fought and won simply by sending out a single champion from each opposing side to engage in mortal combat (remember David and Goliath?). Satan chooses the circumstances of life as his champion, and God chooses Job.ย The goal is to get Job to curse God. However, unlike such contests in the ANE, the victor of this battle does not gain mastery over the other (that contest comes later during the Satan vs. Jesus battle).

This battle theme permeates the entire Bible (e.g., see Eph 6:10-20). God is a God at War. This earth is the war zone. We are not here on planet earth as part of a vacation cruise throughย a cosmic wonderland, but instead find ourselvesย in theย middle of a battle betweenย two powerful enemies: God, the Creator of all, and Satan, who wants to be God. This is part of the reason we find so much wrong with our world.

Fourth,ย this war is not about us.ย Too much of our theology isย man-centered. I sometimes hear it taught that since God is love, and He is a relational God, He created us because He wanted to have a relationship with part of His creation.ย How egotistical and self-centered of us! I’m not saying God doesn’t want to have a relationship with us, but that is not the primary reason He created us. I’m sure I’ll get some people calling me a heretic for saying such a thing, but the fact of the matter is that as humans, we always want to put ourselves at the center of everything. Remember when the church taught that the earth was the center of the universe and the sun, moon and stars all orbited around us?ย Guess what?ย God doesย not orbit around us either.

I do not think God created us so thatย He could battle Satanย for our souls. That just seemsย foolish and petty.ย This battle is not about our souls, as if whoever gathers the most souls wins. Instead, I believe this war is about God trying to teach something to Satan and his angels. Satan, of course, is trying to prove God wrong. (By the way, isn’t it interesting that the created being in the universe who knows the most about God believes that God can be wrong and that God can be defeated? What does that say about Satan’s theology? What does it say about ours?) There are hints throughout Scripture that God created us to teach the angels (cf. 1 Pet 1:12). What are we teaching them? I have some speculative ideas, but I’m not getting into them here.

These four things are some preliminary ideas that helped form my tentative solution to the Job Problem, which I will post for your considerationย tomorrow.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Bible Study, Discipleship

Job Problems (Tentative) Solution – Part I

By Jeremy Myers
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Thanks to everyone who participated in the discussion from the previous post. These comments, along with several email comments I received,ย have helped form my tentative solution over the next few days. This first post will simply provide some personal background for why I am asking these questions in the first place.

Autobiography

As you have probably guessed, my questions about the book of Job are not purely academic. Many times during the past year, my wife and I have literally yelledย to God, saying “We are not Job!” I dread waking up in the morning, becauseย it seems the first question that pops into my mind is “How is my life going to get shredded today?”

Someย people say, “Well, God must be disciplining you for something. Fix it, and life will get better.” Such people need to read the book of Job a little closer and see what God had to say about Job’s friends. Furthermore, people who believe that if you just “get right with God” then everything will be “peachy keen” are living in a fairytale land. In fact, if someones life is full of ease and comfort, I’d suggest that they are the ones who might need to “get right with God.” But I’m getting ahead of myself…

Not everyone is like Job’s friends. Many people have been telling us to “just focus on the positive things.” We tried that, but it seemed that just when we started focusing on something positive in our lives, it got taken away from us too. I also noticed thatย whenever I prayed for something, exactly the opposite happened. If I didn’t pray for something, but just hoped,ย things turned out as I hoped. It seemed that praying for something or focusing on something positive caused these things to become targets for God’sย heavenly pea-shooter.

I know that lots of people have gone through far worse than I have. And lots of well-meaning individuals tried to remind me of that not-so-encouraging fact. To the contrary, becoming aware of how terrible some people’s lives have turned only tends to surface the question, “What in the world is God doing?”

This question brought me back to the book of Job. As stated in my previous post, I have always hadย issues withย God’s treatment of Job in the book.ย The opening chapters of the book of Job remind me of the movie Trading Spaces where two rich, old men, in an attempt to answer theย “nature vs. nurture” debate, decide to gambleย with theย lives of two hapless victims for $1.

So in an attempt to figure out what God might be trying to do in my own life, I have been doing a lot of thinking about the book of Job,ย and the eventsย it describes. In my last post, I raised theย issue.ย I want toย propose a possible solution, but as I wrote it, it became too long toย publish in one blog post,ย soย I will spread it out overย the next couple days.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Bible Study, Discipleship

Job Problems

By Jeremy Myers
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A Story

I was at the park over the weekend with my three daughters and we were playing on the swings. I noticed a man watching us play, and after a while, he came up to me and said, “It sure is obvious your girls love you.”

Thinking it was an odd thing for a stranger to say, I cautiously replied, “Thanks?”

He continued, “Aside fromย giving them fun things to do here at the park, I betย in this economy, you work hard to give them food, clothes, and aย roof over their heads.”

“Yep.” Now I was getting suspicious. “I try to provide for them the best I can.”

“Well, it’s obvious it is working. They adore you…”

I was starting to get a little upset. “I don’t give them that stuff toย earn their love, but because I already love them. What are you trying to say?”

“Well, I’m just saying thatย I bet theย only reason they love you is because you have provided so much for them. I bet they wouldn’t love you as much if you took some of that stuff away,” he said in a rather haughty tone. “I dare you to take some of that good stuff away and see if they still love you.”

Now I understood. And I was actually somewhat intrigued by the idea.”Okay,” I said. “Let’s try it. First, I’m going to not give them dinner tonight, and then tomorrow, when they wake up, all their clothes will be gone. When they come downstairs to ask my wife for clothes and food, we will be gone. When they come outside to see if we are working in the yard, I will have the house rigged so it burns to the ground. I’ll have some food sitting out there, but I’ll put something in so that when they eat it, they will get very, very sick. Then, I’ll send some neighbors over to tell them that their mommy and daddy did all this to them because they did something bad and we are angry with them. I am so sure they love me, that even through all this, I bet they will continue to love me.”ย 

“I bet they won’t,” he retorted.

“We’ll just have to see then, won’t we?”

Job Problems

Clearly, this story is fictional. I made it up, so don’t turn me in to CPS. Any parent who agrees to do these sorts of things to their children should have their children taken away from them. It’s monstrous, and it made me cringe just to write it. I cannot imagine doing anything so cruel to my three girls.

Which brings me to my Job problems. No, it is not problems with my job, but problems withย the premise of the Book of Job in the Bible. Have you ever read the opening chapters of the Book of Job? The opening chapters have God and Satan deciding to test Job’s love for God by taking away everything Job loves andย all he owns, and then have Job’s friends come and tell Job it is because God is punishing him.ย 

I’m not surprised thatย Satan suggests such a scheme. What surprises me is thatย God so readily agrees to it! And furthermore, God never tells Job why all this bad stuff happened to him.ย Jobย never finds out about this divine wager! God never tellsย Job that he was a pawn in a cosmic game of “chicken.” At the end of the book, when Job finally gets to ask God “Why?” God basically says, “I’m God and you’re not, so don’t question me.”

I understand that sometimes parents have to tell their children “Because I said so, that’s why!” or “Because I’m the parent!” butย such answers are not adequate explanations when the parent is abusing the child.

People say, “Yeah, but God gave it all back!” But would any court in the country allow me to keep my daughters if I treated them as described above, and then at the end of it all, say, “Just kidding! Here’s more clothes and food and a bigger house! Now let’s get back to being a happy family!” I don’t think so.

I am not trying to be irreverent or blasphemous, but I just have problems with how God treats Job. What am I not seeing? What am I not understanding?ย 

(I am working on a possible solution to this Job Problem, which I will post later, but I want to see what you come up with first.)

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Bible Study

Are you a Noun-Christian?

By Jeremy Myers
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Christians often divide the world into two groups: Christians and non-Christians. But have you ever heard of a noun-Christian? It is the type of Christian who would rather talk about doctrine, theology, andย the meanings of various biblical words and passages without ever actually doing anything.ย It is the type of Christian I used to be, and the type of Christian I hung out with most.

As an example, we have allย sat through a missions conference where the emphasis of a sermonย was on the meaning of the word “Go” in Matthew 28:19,ย but the only call to action at the end of the message was to give more money when the plate was passed. I knowย I have preachedย semons like this before.ย If faith without works is useless (James 2), discussion without action is worse.

I recently came across the idea in Erwin McManus’ book An Unstoppable Force where he talks about this concept.ย He writes:

Biblical interpretation must be missiological, not theological. A theological construct for interpretation finds success in the attainment of knowledge. The more you know, the more mature a Christian you are thought to be. And yet knowledge of the Bible does not guarantee application of the Bible. To know is not necessarily to do. When the construct applied to the Bible is missiological, you engage the Bible to discover the response required of your life. It is significant that the history of the first-century church is called the book of Acts, not the books of Truths (p. 72).

Obedience to Scripture unlocks their mystery. …If the Bible doesn’t bring change, it is not being engaged (p. 85).

For too long we have focused on making sure people believe the right things and have left their concerns alone. I know it may sound like heresy, but it is more important to change what people care about than to change what they believe! You can believe without caring, but you can’t care without believing. We cannot afford to fill our churches with members who have biblical beliefs and worldly concerns (p. 111).

What does your church mean when it uses the word missions? It has always astonished me that so many churches and individuals who are ‘missions minded’ rarely engage in the mission of Christ that requires them to come face to face with an unbeliever and love that person into God’s kingdom (p. 125).

So what did you learn in church this past Sunday, or in your Bible reading today? Let me challenge you: if you were shown something you were supposed to do, and you haven’t yet done it, don’t read another chapter in your Bible or attend another church service until you have obeyed. God desires obedience, not faithful Bible reading and regular attendance at church (cf. 1 Sam 15:22).

If I ever pastor a church again, I would like to put the “service” back into “church service.” We would only gather at the church building every other week for the typical Sunday events. On the “off” weeks, we would go out as a group and put into practice what we learned the previous week. I am not sureย exactly how this would work,ย but it might be interesting to try. Who knows? Maybe we would find that service helped usย develop more as followers of Christ than singing and sermons ever did.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Discipleship, Theology of the Church

I Went to Church

By Jeremy Myers
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I found the followingย articleย last year, and am posting it here. I have no idea who wrote it, or when.ย It appears to be written by a non-Christian, but for all I know, it could have been written by a disenfranchised Christian. But whoever wrote it, it says a lot of things that I think and feel, and so I am posting it. Whether youย like what is written below or not, please recognize that there are millions of people out there (both believers in Jesus and religious people) who empathize with what this person wrote. So here it is:

I went to church this Sunday; it was the first time in over a year and I was reminded once again why I will never be able to call myself a Christian. The people there were quite handsome, I’ll give them that. The building was beautiful, a masterpiece of architecture with a marble foyer and picturesque stained glass. There was greenery in every corner, which was about the only indication of life in the whole place. I sat on a very comfortable bench next to well-dressed people with plastic smiles full of bright white teeth.

The man in charge of music made us sing the same chorus over and over until everyone seemed to have convinced themselves that God was pleased, and then we all were told to greet one another. While an organ played some little diddy, a man extended his hand and asked me how I was, to which I replied, “Fine.” This happened three more times before I decided to tell the truth. “How are you this morning?” asked a perfect specimen of a young lady. “Horrible. Awful.” I replied. Her answer to my answer? “Well, praise God.” She never even heard me.

A few moments later a man approached the podium and talked about the great financial need of the church – apparently God was broke this weekend – and then he told us to give an offering as the Spirit led us. The Spirit didn’t say nothing to me so I didn’t give a dime when they passed the buckets – yes, an actual bucket – my way.

At this point it struck me that I had heard about the church, about money, about pastor so-and-so, but nobody had mentioned anything about Jesus. Seriously, not one word about their Christ. Oh, well, what did I care? I mean, after all, they were the Christians, not me.

Still holding out hope that the day would not be a wash, I listened to their preacher as he asked us to turn to the book called Matthew. He read about Jesus telling the disciples to not worry about anything because God would feed and clothe them. Nothing wrong with that in my book. For the next fifteen minutes he told me and the other 500 plus people that everything was good, and not only good, but getting better. He told me not to judge anyone because they weren’t to judge me.

His big thought of the day was that we ought to take a meal to whoever was our next door neighbor and tell them that Jesus cares for them and so does the church. Hmmmmm. My neighbor’s name is Russ and he is heavily tattooed, curses like a sailor, and beats his wife every other weekend after sucking down a bottle of Jack Daniels. Somehow I didn’t think that fried chicken, apple pie, and a hugs-and-kisses message from Jesus was really going to impact him so I chose not to take the preacher’s advice.

At the end of his little chat, we all bowed our heads and reminded ourselves of how good God is, how good we are, and how good it is to be good. Funny…in spit of being reminded how grand is my state of being, I left feeling rather bad.

Actually, it didn’t even rise to level of bad, it was the saturation of nothingness… irrelevance… and needlessness. I wondered if anyone else had caught this bug during the last hour or waste. What would have made the difference? I’m really not sure. Maybe a tear, maybe a glitch in the flow of the ultra-smooth program, maybe a torn page in the hymn book to let me know that imperfections were allowed in this church. I mean, the babies didn’t even cry, for goodness sake. Maybe a preacher with less of an ego and more of a soul might have helped.

I don’t know; I honestly went there hoping to find this Jesus that my friend tells me I so desperately need. All I found was a group of mannequins who resemble a Hollywood cast party more than a group of people with an in-road to God. I’ll take Jesus any day that I can find him, but you can keep your Christianity. I mean, I can find insignificance in life without God and His polished posse.

I may not be a Christian, but I can tell you one thing, the only time I know of that Jesus went to a place of worship like the one I attended last Sunday, it is my understanding that he turned over their tables, called them thieves, and ran them all out so that they could think about what the house of God was really supposed to be. Maybe if I had seen that from someone this past Sunday, Christianity would be more appealing.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Theology of Jesus, Theology of the Church

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