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My Life Prayer

By Jeremy Myers
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My Life Prayer

Yesterday I made a post about how God is a stripper, meaning that He strips things out of our life to make us more usable for Him. I’ve been going through some trying times in my life recently, and amidst all of the frustration and questions of “Why, God?” it was as if God said to me, “Jeremy, it’s because you’ve been praying for it! I’m only answering your prayers.”

Sometimes when the fire of God sweeps brings destruction to our lives, it’s because we’ve been praying for God’s refining fire.

You see, one of my life prayers has been for God to make me into the kind of person He can use to reach the kind of people that many churches cannot or will not reach. 

Though the process has been painful, I believe that in order to mold me into that kind of person, God has has to strip me of some things.

The answer to “Why, God?” is “He is answering my prayers.”

In fact, He’s answering my “life prayer.”

My life prayer is not found in the Bible.

Oh sure, I pray the prayers in the Bible, and I pray Scripture, but the prayer I pray most frequently was penned by my favorite poet, John Donne. If I had realized how painful the answer to this prayer would be, I’m not sure I would have ever started praying it (a similar prayer is found here).

life prayer from John Donne

Anyway, here is my life prayer, as prayed first by John Donne in Holy Sonnet XIV.

Holy Sonnet XIV

Batter my heart, three-personed God; for, you
As yet but knock, breathe, shine, and seek to mend.
That I may rise, and stand, overthrow me, and bend
Your force, to break, blow, burn and make me new.
I, like an usurped town, to another due,
Labour to admit you, but Oh, to no end.
Reason your viceroy in me, me should defend,
But is captive, and proves weak or untrue.
Yet dearly I love you, and would be loved fain,
But am betrothed unto your enemy:
Divorce me, untie, or break that knot again,
Take me to you, imprison me, for I
Except you enthrall me, never shall be free,
Nor ever chaste, except you ravish me.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: answers to prayer, Discipleship, life is hard, prayer

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God is a Stripper

By Jeremy Myers
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God is a Stripper

God is a stripper.

No, not that kind. (Though ifย you believe Jesus, strippers are probably closer to the Kingdom of God than many religious people… See Matthew 21:31.)

God is a stripperWhen I say “God is a stripper” I am reminded of a “looking for work” advertisement I saw in the newspaper a few years ago. At the top of the ad in big bold letters it said, “I’ll strip for you!” This ad was placed by a lady who owned aย furniture stripping company. She was offering to strip and refinish your wood furniture. If you have ever tried to refinished your furniture, you know how valuable her services are. If I had to refinishย the antiqueย table my wife and I own, I would hire a stripper… a furniture stripper!

But all of us have something more important than our furniture, and that is our life. And in the life of every single one of us there are blemishes and defects. We all have areas of our life that need to be refinished, refined, or removed.

So when we pray, “God, make me usable to you! Make me into the kind of person who can do great things for you!” He comes in and begins stripping away everything in your life that holds you back and drags you down. He makes you into something useful and beautiful.

This is the “refiner’s fire” we sometimes sing about, where God burns away the dross to leave behind precious gold, silver, and jewels. This is the purifying fire which Paul writes about in 1 Corinthians 3 where our works are put to the test so that only what is valuable and eternal remains, and the wood, hay, and straw gets burned up.

Such a process is long and painful. It may feel as if God has abandoned or forgotten about you. But when you emerge out the other side, you are beautiful and useful for His purposes.

God strips ugly things out of our life

Have you had the experience of God stripping something away from your life? What did you learn? How did you get through it? Are you glad you went through that experience?ย 

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: 1 Corinthians 3, Discipleship, life, purification, refining

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Listening to Squirrel Holes

By Jeremy Myers
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Listening to Squirrel Holes

SquirrelsFor the past six weeks, I’ve had an all-out war with a family of squirrels. Sometime last fall, or over the winter, they decided to make our home their home.

We certainly enjoy opening our home for guests, but a squirrel family, though cute, are unwelcome guests.

When I first discovered the holes they were chewing through our house, my thought was to get out my gun and shoot them. That’s what I would do if I were still in Montana.

But being in a suburb of Dallas, I thought that the neighbors wouldn’t appreciate me shooting a gun next door, and so went down to Home Depot to get some poison.

As it turns out, it’s illegal to poison squirrels.

Instead, I was supposed to use to a live trap to capture them. So I went to the Animal Shelter to get my trap.

I caught the first squirrel in about two days. I used apples and peanut butter as bait. Then I reset the trap and waited. For a week, I never heard another squirrel, so I figured they left. I returned the trap and got up on our treacherously steep roof to patch the holes, then went into the attic and put screen over the other holes.

The very next day, I heard the squirrels chewing new holes to get out of our house. Since I had closed off their exit doors, they decided to make new ones. So I went back down to the shelter, got the trap again, set it, and caught another squirrel, then waited and waited, and not hearing anything, patched the new holes, and returned the trap.

The very next day, I heard the squirrels chewing new holes to get out of our house. Since I had closed off their exit doors, they decided to make new ones. So I went back down to the shelter, got the trap again, set it, and caught another squirrel, then waited and waited, and not hearing anything, patched the new holes, and returned the trap. (Yes, I meant to repeat the last paragraph. Do you see a pattern here?)

Two days ago, I got up on the roof and through some super-sleuthing, figured out where the nest was, and tore part of the roof off to get at it. I spent an hour or more pulling squirrel nesting out of my roof. In the process I found two dead squrrels. (I didn’t kill them, honest!) Today, I patched that hole in the roof and will return the trap to the Animal Shelter. Tomorrow, I fully expect to hear squirrels chewing holes in my house.

Why am I sharing all this?

I believe that God wants to teach us things through nature. It is, of course, one of the four primary ways God teaches us things (the other three being Scripture, conscience, and other people). These squirrels taught me that when a door is closed, sometimes you just have to chew a new one. If you throw up your hands in defeat and say “God’s not opening any doors for me!” you’ll starve to death.

I’m facing a time in my life right now when all the doors seem closed, and have been wondering why God doesn’t open one for me to walk through. “I’ve got a family to feed!” I tell Him.

But I’m beginning to think that by listening to squirrels chew holes in my house, God is telling me He doesn’t want me to go through any of those doors I’ve been knocking on. Instead, He wants me to chew a new one.

I’m excited to see where I come out, but I hope the owner of the house doesn’t get too mad…

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: Discipleship, family, following Jesus, life is hard, walk by faith

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Church Demographics You Will Not Find Anywhere Else

By Jeremy Myers
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Church Demographics You Will Not Find Anywhere Else

church demographicsWhen going into church planting, planters are advised to look up the demographics of the place they are thinking of planting in. Today, I found a site with a special set of church demographics you won’t find anywhere else.

If you want to reach into the gutters of life and find a place that needs the Gospel, a place filled with people who to be shown grace, love, kindness, and mercy, click here to check out some interesting demographics studies by Forbes Magazine.

Lots of people think that the way the church is in their neighborhood is the way it is around the country. Nothing could be further from the truth. Some areas, such as Dallas, Colorado Springs, and Wheaton, are church Meccas. Lots of people and lots of money flow into churches.

Other places, like Vermont, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, Nevada, and Oregon, are church wastelands by comparison.

If you are going to minister in your town and neighborhood, it is critical that you understand the spiritual and church demographics and history of the people who are there. Here are a few websites that will help.

The Association of Religion Data Archives

This is a fantastic site. You can get statistics and data maps on your area. It shows you what denominations there are, how many people attend church, and other helpful bits of information.

American Religious Identification Survey

This is a helpful report about religious trends from 1980 until today. It shows that even though our population has increased, church attendance is waning. I have linked to the Wikipedia page for these results because there is a lot of other helpful information on that page as well.

Seven Deadly Sins in America

If you compare the previous two pages with this page, some interesting trends are revealed. One thing I noticed is that six of the sinsโ€“avarice, gluttony, lust, sloth, pride, wrathโ€“are most common where church is sparsely attended. However, the seventh sin, envy, is most popular where church is widely attended. Interesting.

Hartford Institute for Religion Research

Hartford Seminary posts some good religion research statistics. I have used them before to research megachurch trends. At the time of this posting, however, their website was down, so I cannot give specific pages or links. Hopefully, they get the site back up and running.

Do you know of any other good sites for free religion demographics and research?

American Ethnic Geography.

Some good maps and statistics on religious diversity in America.

Most Religious States Map

A map which shows the states that are the most (and least) religious. Some good information here!

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: attending church, church demographics, Church planting, Discipleship, evangelism

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The 72 Church

By Jeremy Myers
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The 72 Church

Why Men Hate Going to ChurchDavid Murrow is one of my favorite authors. Not only that, he is a creative thinker about how to reach one of the hardest segments of our culture–men. Here is what he wrote about a new paradigm for church planting that he has beenย rolling around in his head. Iย think he is on to something here that will help all of us do a better job at making disciples.

I look forward to reading the rest ofย his thoughts on this.

Todayโ€™s most talked-about church models are polar opposites: megachurches and house churches. Megachurches attempt to draw thousands each weekend with a combination of professional music, top-flight preaching and a phalanx of ministry opportunities. House churches assemble a handful of believers for intimate fellowship, personal expression and a sense of belonging.

These approaches have both strengths and weaknesses when it comes to reaching men. Megachurches offer amazing quality โ€“ but theyโ€™re so big men can fall through the cracks. House churches offer close fellowship โ€“ but they can become ingrown and a bit stale.

Iโ€™d like to suggest a third model for the local church, based on Luke 10. I call it The Seventy-Two Church. Itโ€™s an idea thatโ€™s been rolling around in my head for a couple of years. Itโ€™s a hybrid โ€“ a cross between a house church and a typical congregational model. It bears some resemblance to the Methodist societies that led so many to Christ in the 1700s and 1800s. Let me share the concept with you and see what you think.

How we plant churches now. Almost every church plant begins as a weekly worship service. The goal is to present good preaching and music so that people start coming. Eventually you buy property and build a building. The idea is to create a large gathering of strangers (a crowd) and eventually work these folks into the life of the church (the core). This is the concept that built Saddleback into one of the worldโ€™s most influential churches.

The weakness of this approach is obvious: as the church grows, its ability to minister to individuals is diminished. Big churches know this, so they work overtime to get people into small groups. But most church attenders never find their way to a small group. So these churches draw big crowds, but their impact on their membersโ€™ lives is not what it could be (Willow Creek recently admitted as much).

Now, what if you flipped the equation? Instead of growing a large worship service, then trying to get people into small groups, why not build the church on small groups in the first place?

This is how Jesus did it. He started His church with one small menโ€™s group. Twelve regular guys learning, doing and living life together.

Eventually He expanded his reach to 72 men (see Luke 10). Now, where do you think these 72 came from? How were they trained? The Bible does not say. But I have a theory: if each of the 12 apostles trained 5 more men, youโ€™d have 72 men either directly or indirectly trained by Jesus.

Why couldnโ€™t you establish a church today based on this model? Its centerpiece would not be a weekly worship service, but rather a network of relationships โ€“ in this case, seventy-two men who are all being personally discipled every week.

I hear paradigms cracking all over the world. I can imagine the objections are already rising in your throat. Bear with me a moment, as we see how a seventy-two church might work in the real world.

Structure and leadership are crucial. Our new church plant starts with a leader (letโ€™s call him Pastor Jack). His first task would be to call 12 men to a rigorous, demanding course of discipleship. Jack would meet regularly with his twelve, focusing on the basics of the faith, including mutual confession, accountability, Biblical living, beating temptation, and practical service to God.

Once friendships form among the men, Jack would pair them up two-by-two. He would give each pair of men a nickname. (Jesus dubbed James and John โ€œThe Sons of Thunder.โ€ That sounds nice and manly.) Jack would send each pair out to do stuff together: ministry, recreation and fun. The idea is to get them working together as a unit.

After a year or so, Jack would have a dozen trained, committed leaders who will become the foundation of his church of seventy-two. Then Jack would issue the big challenge: each pair should go out and find 10 more men who really want to grow in faith. Jack would continue to meet with his original 12 men to help them form their groups and raise their men up to maturity.

Assuming the pairs fill their groups, youโ€™d have 72 men being discipled. (12 original disciples, leading 6 groups of 10 men each = 72 men). The foundation of Jackโ€™s church is not a weekly gathering of strangers but a rich honeycomb of men becoming like Jesus. These men are already in accountability pairs, following Jesus as a team.

At this point, a church of 72 would look more like a menโ€™s ministry than a church. But donโ€™t worry; youโ€™re just laying the foundation. Christ told us to build upon a rock. He looked a Simon (a man) and changed his name to โ€œRock.โ€ Itโ€™s time we begin building our churches not on preaching and music, but on the bedrock of transformed men. Upon this rock you can build a strong, enduring church.

God is Uncategorized Bible & Theology Topics: book, Books I'm Reading, church growth, Church planting, David Murrow, Discipleship, Theology of the Church

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