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5 Reasons God Is Happy And How You Can Be Too

By Jeremy Myers
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5 Reasons God Is Happy And How You Can Be Too

Brandon DavisThis is a guest post by Brandon Davis. Here is what Brandon writes about himself:

I live in Ft. Worth, TX. I am married to my beautiful wife, Lacy. We have one little girl with us (Selah Rose) and one with Jesus (Haven Grace). We planted a church in 2008. Planting a church can be hard anyway but with a little girl with heart problems it can be much more difficult. We stayed with it though and she received a transplant after 2 years and left us in 2012 at the age of 3 1/2. We stuck with the church as long as we could but we just didn’t have the emotional stamina to continue. Plus we are very outward thinkers and our church was wanting to go another way (long story short).

In my time there I did all the things that church planters do … everything! I wrote study materials, preached, and composed newsletters on a weekly basis. My time there was good and as it turns out sermons are pretty much “verbalized copy” so I learned and grew a lot. We decided to start a business in copywriting so I can still use my gifts for the glory of God and help promote and edify others as much as possible.

Learn more about Brandon on his website: Brandon Davis

Note from Jeremy Myers: I am publishing several guest posts this summer as I take some time off to rest. I am also preparing for something HUGE this fall. Stay tuned! If you would like to write a Guest Post for RedeemingGod, begin by reading the Guest Blogger Guidelines.

Have you been to the psychology section of your local bookstore lately?

If you have, you have likely seen tons of books available on the subject of happiness. Each one promises a โ€œsecretโ€ to it and places it within reach โ€ฆ well sorta.

It should come as no surprise that a market is out there to help us tap into what we want the most. With all the resources and experts out there telling us what we need to do to feel better and smile more, you would think that would be, right? Evidence shows that the reality is quite to the contrary. We are miserable.

God isn’t.

be happy like God

Straight out of the pages of Scripture we see that God is a happy God. Not that you wonโ€™t see some other aspects of God as he has to deal with us on numerous occasions, but the default character of God isn’t anger or wrath. Theologians tell us that for an attribute to be an attribute, it has to be what God was like before he created anything. And before God created anything he was happy. God is happy by default:

โ€œYou make known to me the path of life;
in your presence there is fullness of joy;
at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.โ€ – Ps. 16:11 (ESV)

But why?

Is there something he isn’t sharing with us? Some secret?

No, not at all. As a matter of fact he shares more than just information with us, he shares himself. In doing so, he is revealing more than just tips, but a life lived where all can see. By observing him, we learn five things that make this God so happy. Not only that we can follow his joyous lead.

1. God is Community

Christians believe in one God who is three distinct persons. Itโ€™s tough to wrap our heads around to be sure, but the point is, there was never a time when God was without community because that is his very being. It isn’t something he chooses to do now and then, it who he is.

We canโ€™t be happy alone. People need people. We don’t just need any oleโ€™ people, but those that are truly life-giving and seek our good. To have even one devoted friend is of enormous value. To be happy we need them.

2. God Creates

God created the world and rejoiced in what he had made. Itโ€™s in the opening account of the Bible.

Business manuals suggest that the happiest places on earth to work are those where the people feel the freest to create and not feel judged. Some of the happiest professions are those that allow and make room for people to be more creative. What does that tell you? It means we were made to create also.

3. God Gives

If I hear the statement, โ€œMoney is the root of all evilโ€ one more time Iโ€™m gonna puke! The Bible doesn’t say this. It says โ€œThe love of money is the root of all evil.โ€ Having lots of money can make you happy. If you give it away.

Harvard Professor Michael Norton wrote a book about this called Happy Money, the Science of Smarter Spending. In it he presents data to support his daily challenge to audiences:

โ€œIf you think money doesnโ€™t buy happiness, try giving some away.โ€

He is right.

Those that give are happier than those who donโ€™t. Imagine that! (Acts 20:35).

4. God is Thankful

Go back to the first chapter of the Bible again. What do you see? Not only is God creating, but he is thankful in the process. He turns to himself repeatedly to say, โ€œGood job!โ€.

Being thankful takes work. We aren’t by nature. I know for myself I have had to sit down, shut up and make a list of things that I should be thankful for. Itโ€™s a pain, but by the end of that exercise, I am happier than before. Try it.

5. God beautifies

This one is hard to explain, but it is my personal favorite. God doesn’t just create; he fixes. He restores. He connects. In other words, God is not in the business of breaking things down, but ultimately building them up and making them better.

My wife loves to decorate and occasionally do makeovers for her friends. I love to write and do public speaking. Each of us in our own way are adding something to improve or at least point people to what is so beautiful to begin with.

If you want to be happy, find something broken and repair it. Find broken people and help them heal. See where people are struggling and come alongside them and lift them back on their feet.

The happiest being did all these to us. In what seemed like the ugliest event in history heโ€ฆ

GAVE Himself
CREATED sons and daughters
Established a COMMUNITY of THANKFULNESS
& is making all things BEAUTIFUL.

This truly is the Gospel of the blessed (happy) God – 1 Timothy 1:11.

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Mamaโ€™s Win Duh Box

By Sam Riviera
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Mamaโ€™s Win Duh Box

Sam Riviera is a frequent and popular contributor to this blog. Many of his posts on loving your neighbors and ministering to the homeless have beenย among the most popular articles on this blog. Below is another one of his heart-wrenching and insightful posts.

pickup truck

A rusty old pickup truck piled high with an odd assortment of what looked like junk pulled into our gravel driveway one sunny spring afternoon. An older couple dressed like farmers from the back woods crawled out of the cab as I stood there watching.

โ€œWeโ€™re your mamaโ€™s kin from back in the hills and hollers of West Virginia. Your mama wrote us and told us sheโ€™s doinโ€™ poorly, so we come to help out for a spell. You must be her oldest child.โ€

โ€œUh, yeah, Iโ€™m Sam.โ€

โ€œWell you can juz call us Annie and Un Kull. Whereโ€™s your mama, child?โ€ Annie said. As I would soon learn, Annie did most of the talking and Un Kull didnโ€™t say much.

I showed Annie and Un Kull (I eventually figured out they were saying auntie and uncle, but they pronounced it Annie and Un Kull and believe me, Iโ€™m not making fun of them) to mamaโ€™s room, a converted garage that my daddy had fixed up for mama when he was alive.

Daddy had died one wet and stormy March night a couple of years earlier. I remember mama and her brother coming home early one evening from the hospital where daddy had lay dying. Usually they came home later, when visiting hours were over. That night they came home right after supper with a hang dog look on their faces.

I was in the cellar working on cleaning up grandmaโ€™s box of old wooden butter molds, wooden spoons, and potato mashers. Uncle Bob came down the cellar steps with his hand in his pockets, looking as sad as Iโ€™ve ever seen him. I could tell that he didnโ€™t know what to say.

โ€œYour daddy didnโ€™t make it.โ€

I thought the world ended that night. Even all these years later I canโ€™t help but cry as I write that.

Daddy wasnโ€™t around any more to convert any more garages, to plant his flowers and garden or to help out mama, my little brother and me. So here was Annie and Un Kull, which looked to me like a poor substitute for Daddy. But they were all we had. Or so I thought.

While Annie and Un Kull sat and talked with mama, I returned to the driveway to look over their truck and itโ€™s load of whatever it was they had brought with them.

Someone had cut rectangular holes in the sides of the pickup bed and had wedged two by fours down into the holes. The tops of the two by fours were as high as the top of the cab. Cross pieces of rough one by sixes ran between the two by fours, effectively raising the sides of the bed as high as the top of the cab. Matching wooden swinging gates across the back completed the modification.

Several old upside-down wood chairs, and one upside-down wood rocker were jammed into a pile of burlap bags, boxes and an odd assortment of gardening tools, newspaper-wrapped unknowns and you-name-its that I didnโ€™t recognize.

โ€œWhoโ€™s the hillbillies?โ€ My neighbor, Billy, a few years older than me, stood behind me surveying the truck and itโ€™s contents.

โ€œMamaโ€™s relatives from West Virginia.โ€

โ€œWhat they doing here?โ€

โ€œThey said they came to help out.โ€

โ€œHow long they staying?โ€

โ€œDonโ€™t know.โ€

That was really an insignificant conversation, but I remember it because I remember how embarrassed I was. Billy was too old for me to hang around with and he really never meant much to me but my hillbilly relatives and their rusty, junk-filled old pickup sitting in our driveway somehow terribly embarrassed me when Billy stood there asking me about them.

Later that afternoon Annie and Un Kull unloaded their truck and stashed their things here and there around the house and in the cellar.

โ€œLooks like we brought everything we own,โ€ Annie told me as they unloaded the truck and my brother and I looked on. โ€œWell, almost. All the important things anyway.โ€

Annie thrust her hand into a burlap bag and produced a cast iron skillet.

โ€œThis here skilletโ€™s been seasoned just right. It cooks the best corn pone cakes. Youโ€™ll see. Brought some good meal to make โ€™em with too. Doubt we can find meal as good as that โ€˜round these parts.โ€

We had corn pone cakes, spoon bread, and a vast variety of foods we had never heard of before Annie and Un Kull came to stay. Annie cooked, and took care of Mama. Un Kull fixed everything that needed fixing and planted us a huge garden.

One day not long after they arrived Annie pointed out the window box daddy had made for mama. He had built a long shelf outside their bedroom window, about three feet up off the ground, and a long wooden window box for that shelf. When he was alive he planted flowers in the box every spring. Since he had passed, the box had been empty.

window boxโ€œI brought a bag of my special sweet pea seeds and I think theyโ€™d do good in that there wind duh box right outside your mamaโ€™s bedroom where she can look out and see โ€˜em. Theyโ€™ll cheer her up while sheโ€™s gettinโ€™ better.โ€

I wasnโ€™t sure mama would get better. She had inflammation of the pancreas, as the doctor called it. He said weโ€™d have to see if sheโ€™d get better. Annie and Un Kull said mama just had a case of consumption, whatever that was, and they were sure sheโ€™d get better.

Annie asked for my help planting her sweet pea seeds. I helped and did as she instructed. Annie watered the box every couple of days and fussed over those sweet peas.

As the sweet peas grew, mama started getting better. I donโ€™t know if it was the sweet peas, Annieโ€™s corn pone cakes and country cooking, or what, but mama started getting better. Within a few weeks the sweet peas trailed all the way to the ground, and Annie wove the vines together to make a solid thicket of sweet peas outside mamaโ€™s window.

Those sweet peas were the prettiest shade of pink Iโ€™ve ever seen. I donโ€™t remember a sweeter smell than those sweet peas in the early evening when mama sat in Annieโ€™s rocker out there by the sweet peas.

โ€œI think I could sit here forever smelling those sweet peas,โ€ mama said. โ€œEspecially if Iโ€™ve got of plate of something Annie cooked. Made with love. Thatโ€™s what makes her cooking so good.โ€

Mama continued to get better that summer. Even her sorrow over daddyโ€™s passing seemed to gradually go away.

Me and little brother and Mama thrived that spring, summer, and fall that Annie and Un Kull spent with us. Some evenings Un Kull got out his banjo and we sang. We sang Gospel and some things that I donโ€™t remember. Stuff mama and Annie and Un Kull knew. I do remember that silly song about โ€œDaddy sang base, mama sang tenor, me and little brother joined right in there.โ€ We didnโ€™t have daddy, but we had Annie and Un Kull and mama, and me and little brother joined right in there.

The leaves on the maples were brilliant reds, oranges and yellows the day Annie and Un Kull told us theyโ€™d better be leaving soon so theyโ€™d be back to the hills and hollers of West Virginia and get their โ€œlittle shack ready for winter before the snow flew.โ€

Mama, little brother, and I stood in the drive and cried the day Annie and Un Kull and their old pickup piled high with all their important things, including Annieโ€™s famous skillet, pulled out and headed for West Virginia. Mama was feeling almost normal. Our house was in good repair and our hearts were glad once again. Annie and Un Kull had worked their magic on us.

It wasnโ€™t much more than a couple of years later that I answered the phone late one evening.

โ€œThis hereโ€™s Mabel Corlett, neighbor to your Aunt and Uncle back here in West Virginia. I just thought youโ€™d want to know your Aunt and Uncle were killed in a bad accident this afternoon.โ€

โ€œWhat happened?โ€ I asked.

โ€œThey were on a country road back in the hills, on their way to tend to some sick old lady. Some drunk t-boned โ€˜em and killed โ€˜em instantly โ€˜cordin to the sheriff. The funeralโ€™s Friday if any of you can come.โ€

Mama and I made the trip. We learned from Annie and Un Kullโ€™s friends and neighbors, which seemed to be everyone around those parts, that Annie and Un Kull took care of everyone around there. And here we thought it was just us.

I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ve ever seen more people turn out for a funeral than that one. And the supper at the church afterwards was something Iโ€™ll never forget. The cooking was amazing, but I thought Annieโ€™s was better.

โ€œYour aunt and uncle never had a nickel, but they loved on everyone in these parts. The preacher could preach his sermons, but your aunt and uncle lived โ€˜em out. Those folks were Jesus in person to everyone they knew. I donโ€™t think I ever believed before they came along. They jusโ€™ made it real to me. How were you related, anyway?โ€ Mabel asked.

โ€œOh, we werenโ€™t,โ€ mama said. They adopted me and my husband a long time ago and told us to call them Annie and Un Kull. They were more like family to us than most of our real relatives.โ€

โ€œHow did you meet them?โ€ Mabel asked.

โ€œThey sort of appeared out of nowhere one day.โ€

โ€œI didnโ€™t know that, mama,โ€ I said. โ€œThey werenโ€™t really related to us?โ€

โ€œNo, son. Itโ€™s a long story. I tell it to you on the drive back home.โ€

When we got back home, I walked over to the window box outside mamaโ€™s bedroom window. It was barren after the winter. But spring had come and it was time to plant. Time to plant sweet peas and time to start planting what Annie and Un Kull had taught us.

I found my bag of sweet pea seeds. Annie had told me โ€œLet โ€˜em go to seed and save those seeds, child. Youโ€™ll be glad you did. You can plant โ€˜em yourself. Do it like I showed you and youโ€™ll have all the sweet peas you want.โ€

Little brother, who couldnโ€™t go to the funeral with mama and me in West Virginia because he couldnโ€™t get off work drove in just as I started digging in the flower box.

โ€œWhat โ€˜ya doing, big brother?โ€

โ€œPlanting Annieโ€™s sweet pea seeds. Weโ€™re going to have us a crop of pink sweet peas. Mama can sit out here in a few weeks in that rocker we got her for Christmas and smell those sweet peas at the end of the day.โ€

โ€œYou sure you can do that?โ€ little brother asked. โ€œNo one could make flowers bloom like Annie.โ€

โ€œYeah, I think I can. Annie showed me how to make the flowers bloom. I think you know how too.โ€

Mama had a thicket of pink sweet peas that summer outside her window. Annie had taught us well. Annie and Un Kull had taught us a lot more than how to make the flowers bloom. They had also taught us how to bloom and how to share a sweet smell with others.

Another day, another time, Iโ€™ll tell you more about that summer Annie and Un Kull spent with us. Iโ€™ll share some of their stories and some of the stories of the flowers weโ€™ve planted since then that have bloomed and have a sweet smell of their own.

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What Elijah Missed

By Jeremy Myers
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What Elijah Missed

Paule PattersonThis is a guest post by Paule Patterson.

Paule is the High School Student Coach at Real Life on the Palouse in Moscow, ID. He has three children and has been married to his best friend for over 10 years. He attempts to ask questions that are often glossed over and to challenge the most basic of assumptions, looking for the shades of grey and color beyond the black and whites.

Paule writes and hosts a podcast at Valid Ambiguity. You can also connect with him on Twitter: @dredzs

Note from Jeremy Myers: I am publishing several guest posts this summer as I take some time off to rest. I am also preparing for something HUGE this fall. Stay tuned! If you would like to write a Guest Post for RedeemingGod, begin by reading the Guest Blogger Guidelines.

Elijah on Mt HorebSlunked under his tattered cloak on a bed of trampled dirt and granite, Elijah was exhausted by his forty-day trek to Horeb and his bout with depression. He was alone. His volcanic Mount Carmel showdown, his draught ending prayer session, and his Flash like outrunning of the chariot have all faded into the foggy clefts of his memory. He was alone. Everyone had failed. If a torrential inferno from the clouds and the relief from the long desperate draught were not enough to turn the hearts of Israel back to their God, what was the point?

Elijah wants to die.

Then the word of the Lord rattled through the cave, โ€œWhat are you doing here, Elijah?โ€ (1 Kings 19:9).

Elijah scrambled to his feet. What kind of question was this? Was it not the Lord who sent his angel to strengthen Elijah for this journey to the mount of God? Where else could Elijah go? He whimpers, โ€œI have been very jealous for the Lord, the God of hosts. For the people of Israel have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword, and I, even I only, am left, and they seek my life, to take it away.โ€ The word of the Lord again shakes the loose debris of the caveโ€™s ceiling, โ€œGo out and stand on the mount before the Lord.โ€ The Lord was about to appear.

Only Moses had experienced such a thing. His face glared like the setting sun as a result. Would this be the reinforcements for Elijahโ€™s isolation or the recognition for Elijahโ€™s fiery dedication? As Elijah inches towards the mouth of the cave, a great wind barrages the mountain, shattering boulders. Yet, God was not in the wind.

Then an earthquake sifts the mountain as wheat. Yet, God was not in the earthquake.

Then a firestorm floods the mountain. Yet, God was not in the fire.

Then, as shards of rocks tumble down, the landslides relax and the ashes smolder, a quaint, almost silent, whisper advances the mountain. โ€œWhat are you doing here, Elijah?โ€ The same question as before? Apparently, Elijah had missed something and was not picking up on the not-so-subtle hints God was dropping; Elijahโ€™s answer to this second question was the verbatim of the first. The people have all failed the Lord and only Elijah has remained faithful. The Lord, as if ignoring Elijahโ€™s lamentation, instructs Elijah to make a couple of final appointments and then to go train Elisha as his replacement. Elijah was being retired.

What had Elijah missed?

Elijah cave 1 Kings 19To answer the question, compare this story with that of Mosesโ€™ mountain experiences which took place on Mount Horeb and Mount Sinai. These two mountains are closely related to each other in significance and there is debate on whether or not Sinai and Horeb is the same mountain. Moses had seen flames rain down on Mount Sinai, felt the quaking of the mountain (Exodus 19:18) and seen the ruach (wind) push up the seawaters so the people may escape on dry land (Exodus 15:8-10). Moses had felt the agony and rage of seeing Godโ€™s people over and over again forget and forsake their Savior and Lord.

Even as the soot sprinkled from Mount Sinai above, the people whom Moses was leading melted gold, fabricated a calf, and idiotically declared, โ€œThese are your gods, O Israel, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt!โ€ (Exodus 32:8). After squashing the active rebellion, Moses hikes up the face of Horeb to beg the Lord to remain with His people. When the Lord promises to do so, Moses nonchalantly said to the Lord, โ€œPlease show me your glory.โ€

God put Moses in a cleft, like Elijah was in a cave, and covered Mosesโ€™ face as the Lord passed by, as Elijah covered his face when the whisper manifested.

During the idol worship, while the people โ€œplayed,โ€ the Lord was watching and relayed the events to Moses. God denounced these people to Moses, saying, โ€œโ€ฆNow therefore let me alone, that my wrath may burn hot against them and I may consume them, in order that I may make a great nation of youโ€ (Exodus 32:9-10).

At this point, Moses and Elijah begin to diverge.

Moses mediated on behalf of the people. As their leader, he stepped up and pleaded for them. Moses had people behind him at the foot of the mountain. Moses had been training up Joshua and working with Aaron. Elijah had simply given up on the people. He was alone with no co-workers or disciples. Just when you might assume that Elijahโ€™s isolation had been the peopleโ€™s fault, the Lord informed Elijah that there were 7000 who had not bent their knee to or kissed Baal. Elijah had also forgotten the 100 other prophets hidden by Obadiah (1 Kings 18:3-4). When you might assume that there was none worthy of being Elijahโ€™s disciple, the Lord speaks of Elisha. Elijah had been the lone wolf and the Lord was inviting him to consider that what he was missing was people. He had framed his world and his activity around himself. He was so caught up in what he could, in what he had to do, that he forgot Godโ€™s people. Even when they had failed, he missed the opportunity to plead for them. He had assumed that a little light show would be enough. He had not anticipated that the real work would be with people, for people, and in people.

In your life, your job, and your family, donโ€™t isolate from the people around you. You cannot come to the mountain of God without bringing the people of God. The mountain top is for the leader to gain perspective so that he may rejoin Godโ€™s people who await at the base. That is where God is working.

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Snails in Heaven

By Jeremy Myers
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Snails in Heaven

A long time ago, I included this illustration in a sermon about heaven:

There is an old legend of a swan and a crane. A beautiful swan alighted by the banks of the water in which a crane was wading about seeking snails. For a few moments the crane viewed the swan in stupid wonder and then inquired: “Where do you come from?”

“I come from heaven!” replied the swan.

crane eating snails“And where is heaven?” asked the crane.

“Heaven!” said the swan. “Heaven! Have you never heard of heaven?” And the beautiful bird went on to describe the grandeur of the Eternal City. She told of streets of gold, and the gates and walls made of precious stones; of the river of life, pure as crystal, upon whose banks is the tree whose leaves shall be for the healing of the nations. In eloquent terms the swan sought to describe the hosts who live in the other world, but without arousing the slightest interest on the part of the crane.

Finally the crane asked: “Are there any snails there?”

“Snails!” repeated the swan; “No! Of course there are not.”

“Then,” said the crane, as it continued its search along the slimy banks of the pool, “You can have your heaven. I want snails!”

This fable has a deep truth underlying it. How many a young person to whom God has granted the advantages of a Christian home, has turned his back upon it and searched for snails! How many a man will sacrifice his wife, his family, his all, for the snails of sin! How many a girl has deliberately turned from the love of parents and home to learn too late that heaven has been forfeited for snails!

About 20 years ago when I preached the sermon that included this illustration, I shared it with approval. “Yes,” I said. “We turn down heaven for the stupid pleasures of this life.”

Today, I feel differently about the story. The way I read the story now, I do not feel sorry for the crane but for the swan. It is not the crane who is blind and ignorant of heaven, but the swan! Most of the promises of God in the Bible are not about life after death, but are about life before death! The Bible does not tell us much about life after death, but is instead focused on life before death. We sometimes sit around twiddling our thumbs saying, “I cannot wait until I die. Life in heaven will be quite something!” God looks at us, however, and says, “I cannot wait until you live. Your life on earth will be quite something!”

The crane wanted snails. Why? Because God made the crane to like snails. And there is nothing wrong with that!

What are your snails? Well, as we are learning in our study through Genesis (Subscribe to the Podcast Today!), God made humans for relationships. He gave us food and sex to enjoy. He gave us animals to take care of and gardens to tend. He gave us work on this earth to perform. He created beauty for us to see, thrills for us to experience, music for us to hear, and food for us to taste. Is it so wrong to do what God made us to do and to enjoy what God created for our enjoyment? I think not!

To the contrary, when we eat good food, laugh with friends, close our eyes and listen to the music, take time to smell the roses, and dig our fingers deep into the soil of life, it is then that God smiles at us with pleasure for He sees that we are enjoying the good gifts of life that He blessed us with.

And heaven? Well, it will just be more of the same. Believe it or not, “heaven” is not our home; earth is. This short life is just the trial membership. It’s the beta version. The things you truly enjoy in life will be magnified and amplified in the final version yet to come.

So when the crane asked for snails, the proper response of the swan should have been, “Snails? Of course there are snails! Snails like you have never seen. There are even things better than snails which you cannot even imagine! Go ahead. Enjoy the snails. And as you do, may they remind you that there are far, far better things ahead.”

It is good and Godly to want snails if you are a crane. It is also good and Godly to want love, relationships, laughter, and joy if you are a human. God made us for such things, and He is pleased when we receive such things with gladness. Streets of gold and celestial cities in the by and by are of no help to the lonely and hurting person of today who simply wants someone to hug them. Don’t sneer at such people for seeking after snails. They are only seeking what God made them to seek.

Are you just waiting to die so you can go to heaven in the future? God is waiting for you to live so you can begin experiencing heaven right now.

enjoy life

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How to talk to God for REAL

By Jeremy Myers
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How to talk to God for REAL

what is prayerHow do you talk to God? How should we talk to God?

I often hear Christians who have picked up a really bad habit of saying “Father God” at least once every 5 words. Iย am not making this up. You have probably heard something like it yourself.

Such prayersย sound like this:

Father God, I thank you, Father God, for being here, Father God, and for allowing us, Father God, to study Scripture today, Father God. And Father God, may you bless our minds, Father God, with your Spirit, Father God, so that, Father God, we may become more Christlike, Father God, and in your name, Father God, bring others to you, Father God.

And on and on it goes. I have written about this before here. Such a way of praying certainly develops a good rhythm, but is that really what we are going for in our prayers? Rhythm? No. I think that when we pray, our goal should be communication with God.

So how can you do that?

Talk to God like you Talk to Others

When people say “Father God” over and over in their prayers, I imagine God does not mind as much as I do … but please, when you pray, learn to talk to God like you talk to anyone else. You do not need fancy words, fancy language, or lots of repetition.

And God definitely doesn’t need to be reminded of who we are talking to.

On a recent Facebook Post, Vicki Manera shared this image with me:

talk to God

Let’s start talking to God the way we talk to anyone else. God does not need to be reminded that we are talking to Him.

In fact, you don’t even need to start your prayers with the word “Dear” and end them with the word “Amen.” Do you do this when talking to anyone else? Nope. So just talk to God like you talk to any other friend who is standing right next to you. Because that is exactly where God is.

The Lord’s Prayer for Today

Here is “The Lord’s Prayer” which follows this way of thinking about God and about prayer:

Hey Dad, I know that you want people to know who you are, and so help me learn to follow your ways here on earth just as they are followed in heaven. Help me do this by trusting you for my needs today and avoiding the way the world wants me to live. Hopefully as you teach me to live this way, others will come to know you through me. I’m serious about this, okay?

Now really, that prayer is quite generic. It doesn’t say much. But it’s a template for how our conversations with God can go. You don’t need to memorize this prayer or recite it. After all, do you memorize a conversation you want to have with your wife and recite it to her every night at dinner? I hope not…

The point is this … God is a real person who wants to have real conversations with you. So talk to Him that way!

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