Have you ever heard a woman use Genesis 3:16 to say that the reason women experience pain in childbearing is because God cursed Eve? In other words, have you ever heard someone blame God for the pain that women experience in giving birth?
I don’t think Jesus was saying in Mark 7:10 that children should be put to death if they fail to take care of their parents. He doesn’t seem to be quoting that particular law from Exodus 21:17 favorably.
My book on the Atonement of God begins with a summary of three views on the atonement, and then I define and defend a fourth view, which is a Non-Violent view of the atonement. Following this, I summarize 10 ways the Non-Violent atonement transforms your theology to look more like Jesus Christ.
If you are curious how God can forgive sins and rescue us from death without demanding the bloody death of Jesus, you will want to read this book.
I have been reading, teaching, and writing A LOT these past several years on the violence of God in the Bible, and this book also provides the beginning place for understanding these violent, bloody texts in Scripture.