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Have you ever tried to see God, but given up because you just cannot find Him? Maybe it is because you are looking too far away…
If you cannot see God … look a little closer.
Everett and his wife lived near my wife and me. Everett loved his rose garden, and spent many hours there, weeding, pruning, fertilizing, spraying insecticide, and cutting fresh blooms to give to friends and neighbors. Everett also attended the same church we attended. We met at Everett’s house every Thursday evening for a summer Bible study.
Everett was elderly and had health problems. One Thursday when we went to his home for Bible study, he mentioned that he was not feeling well. Three days later the pastor announced in church that Everett had passed away on Saturday. A few days later we attended his funeral service at the church.
One of Everett’s sons delivered his eulogy, and included numerous biographical details. Everett had been a very accomplished person with many skills. He had a distinguished career as a decorated officer in the military. He had been an outstanding and well-known engineer. His son revealed detail after detail about Everett that none of us had ever heard.
Everyone in the church was astonished. None of us had known any of those things about Everett, even though he and his wife had attended our church for almost ten years. It seemed that we had never really known Everett. He was one of those people who didn’t brag about himself or his accomplishments and none of us had ever bothered to ask him to tell us about his life.
How was it possible that we knew he loved roses, he drove a blue Buick, he attended the same church we attended, and he and his wife hosted a Bible study at their home, yet we knew almost nothing about him? What else about Everett had we missed?
That experience served as a wake-up call for some of us. We realized that our lives were filled with people who were merely acquaintances. We knew a little about them, but never knew their stories. We had never bothered to ask.
If we had never heard their stories, how could we possibly really know them?
In this age of messages limited to one hundred forty characters, how well do we really know most people? We have huge amounts of information at our fingertips, information that we can access in seconds, but how often do we bother to get to really know other people?
Frequently people tell me “I have no close friends,” or “I have only one or two people that I’m really close to.” As I write this, I am reminded that just yesterday evening a man I have known for many years told me “If anything happens to me, I’m screwed. I have no one.”
How is it possible that our culture is filled with people who have no one or almost no one? Almost everywhere I go I see people walking, driving, sitting in restaurants, riding on public transportation, and involved in almost every conceivable activity while talking on their cellphones or pressing keys on their cellphones and tablets, seemingly very involved with their electronic communications devices. How can they have no one or almost no one in their lives when they appear to be connected almost all the time to other people?
“I have hundreds of friends on Facebook.”
“How many of these people do you know outside Facebook?” I often ask.
“What do you mean?”
“How many of them have you ever met in person?”
The usual response? “A few.” Sometimes, “One or two.”
“How do you know they are who they claim to be? How do you know that the pictures and the things they tell you about themselves on Facebook are true if you’ve never met them in person? Maybe the pictures are of someone else, or pictures of the person from a long time ago. Maybe they make up the stuff they say.”
“Hmmm. Well I don’t really know.”
Many of us don’t really know. We don’t really know many, if any other people very well at all. Nor do we really know very much of anything about many of the people we think we know.
How often have we turned on the evening news to yet another story of someone who committed some atrocious act and heard the reporter interviewing that person’s neighbors and acquaintances and heard “We were shocked.” How could the person who lived next door or across the street have done what they did?
Many of us believe that we were created in the image of God, but have we been able to discover that image in people? What does it look like and how do we go about discovering it?
I am making the assumption that the image of God in people does not mean that we physically resemble God, but that some of his attributes may be found in us, albeit in a lesser degree. Many of his attributes might be found in us but let us consider three, love, mercy and grace.
In order to determine if people might possess these attributes, first we must get to know them. Mr. Upstanding Citizen in his private life may be something very different from his public persona. The homeless person we see sitting by the side of the road dressed in tattered, dirty clothes might be one of the most loving, merciful and grace-filled people in town.
Really knowing people involves more than recognizing them, being acquainted with them and maybe knowing a few basic facts about them, such as their names, where they live or work, and perhaps a few other bits of surface information. It includes knowing their stories, even if in abbreviated form.
Knowing their stories and getting to really know them includes getting to know where they come from and discovering some of the things that have been their joys in life, as well as the things that have caused them pain. Whom do they love? Who loves them? How do they show love and care and grace both to themselves and to others?
In my experience getting to know people well happens most successfully when we spend time and share space with them, which allows us to interact with them face-to-face, observe who they are and hear their stories.
Is this necessary? Must we really go to so much trouble? Is it not enough to recognize that the Bible says we are created in God’s image? On the other hand, don’t most of us know people who look and act nothing like what we suppose someone created in God’s image should look and act like? Perhaps it is necessary to get to know people well if we are to know if some of his attributes are actually present in them.
In the next two posts in this series we will discuss getting to know other people by spending time and sharing space with them, and getting to know them by hearing and knowing their stories. If you want to get to know other people and see God in them, you don’t want to miss these posts!
Below is the fourth letter in the series, “Letters To Dad.” They are written by Sam Riviera, and are based on the true stories of people he actually knows in real life.
Dad,
I’m stupid. I was so wrong. I thought you and your rules were stupid. That’s why I ran away. I thought I had everything all figured out and you were treating me like a baby with your rules. “Come straight home after school. We need to know where you are at all times. Don’t try any drugs even if the kids at school give them to you. That stuff will ruin your life. You can’t go to parties unless we know where you are and the parents are there. No parties with drugs or booze.”
The first few nights I stayed at a friend’s house. Her parents didn’t know I was there. She snuck me into her bedroom through the window and I left the same way the next morning. She said we couldn’t keep doing that.
I was hanging with some kids I didn’t know near a liquor store. This guy a little older than me bought me some snacks, then he took me to a movie. After the movie he asked where he could drop me off. I told him I didn’t care. He asked if I needed a place to stay and said I could stay at his sister’s.
She was real nice to me for a couple of days. Then she told me she couldn’t afford to let me live there forever. She said her friend could help me earn my way.
Her friend says he owns me. He says he owns all of the girls in our house. I don’t know exactly where the house is, but I’m pretty sure it’s somewhere in San Diego. When we leave, he puts us in the back of a van. We can’t see out. He drops us off and then picks us up later in the van and takes us back to the house.
When we get back to the house, he locks up our clothes so we won’t try to run away. Not that we have many clothes anyway. Only our working clothes.
This is going to make you so mad, but he’s got us hooked on this stuff. Honest. I didn’t know what it was. He said it would relax me. Now I really need it and he’s my only way to get it.
He makes LOTS of money off us, but we don’t get to keep it. He makes thousands every week. That’s how he can afford his car and jewelry. He doesn’t stay here. He probably has a nice house somewhere, not like the dump where he keeps us. He pays a woman who looks like a truck to guard us in case we get any ideas about running off naked.
We get fed, but have nothing. They took our ID, clothes and everything else we had. I was lucky to find the paper to write this. If I’m really lucky I’ll somehow find an envelope and a stamp. Maybe I can get a stamp from one of my customers and mail the letter.
Our guard buys the newspaper every day. If you can forgive me and still want me, put an ad in the lost and found pets section that says “Found. Blue eyed basset hound near the corner of” and list some street corner a couple of blocks north of El Cajon Blvd. about a mile east of the 805. My territory is not far from there. I’ll try to walk to the corner in the ad. If I don’t show between ten and midnight, try again until I show. It might take awhile for me to get a chance to make a run for it.
You won’t recognize me, but I’ll recognize you. Bring some of my clothes.
I heard there’s a drug rehab place near uncle Glenn’s. That would get me out of town. I can’t ever come back here. They might find me. If I can make it through rehab I’ll need to go somewhere else where they can’t find me.
I’ll find a way to pay you back for the rehab and the doctor. I need to be checked out. How could I be so stupid? I am so ashamed.
Lorene
Last week I promised you that Genesis 2–4 contained some revolutionary ideas about everything related to life, humanity, society, religion, war, politics, violence, and pretty much everything else in life. But other than the fact that God is relational, we didn’t really see anything too revolutionary in Genesis 2:4-6.
But that is about to change. Today, as we look at Genesis 2:7, we will learn something rather shocking about the creation of man. You don’t want to miss this!
Genesis 2:7. And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being.
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I have been writing a lot in the past three years about violence and non-violence, and how to understand the violence of God in Scripture in light of the non-violent revelation of God in Jesus Christ. I hope to publish a book or two on this topic within the next year, so make sure you have subscribed to my newsletter to keep updated.
One common objection I often receive from people about a non-violent reading of Scripture is that it seems to contradict so many violent portrayals of God in the Old Testament. (It doesn’t … when you read the Old Testament through a particular lens, which again, I will talk about in my book.)
Sometimes people accuse me of cherry-picking verses from the Bible, but other times people say that we just have to accept what the Old Testament says about God, even if we don’t like it (Again, I believe I am doing this, but I just have a way of reading Scripture that differs from the way the proponents of a violent God read Scripture).
One thing that some people say to me is, “You can’t argue against God. His ways are higher than your ways; His thoughts higher than your thoughts. For, as Paul says in 1 Corinthians 2:16, ‘Who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct Him?'”
Without a doubt, that’s true.
But I want you to notice something else Paul says as well.
In 1 Corinthians 2:16, Paul makes a statement that many people have either ignored or misunderstood.
After stating that his message of the Gospel centered around and focused on Jesus Christ and Him crucified (1 Corinthians 2:2), Paul goes on to say that focusing on the crucifixion of Jesus is what provides true spiritual wisdom and insight (1 Corinthians 2:6-9).
Paul says that what God has done in Jesus Christ was not known or anticipated by anyone or anything. But we have come to understand it, Paul says, because we have the Spirit of God, and God’s Spirit understands these things (1 Corinthians 2:10-15).
Then, at the end of this explanation, Paul states what was probably an objection he sometimes received from people who heard Paul preach. It is also an objection I have heard. And it might be an objection you have sometimes heard.
The objection is this: “But who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct Him?” In other settings, the objection might be stated this way, “Our thoughts are not His thoughts. Who are you, oh man, to talk back to God? His ways are higher than our ways! His thoughts are higher than our thoughts.”
And do you know what Paul says to that? He says, “But we have the mind of Christ.”
In other words, Paul is saying, “His thoughts are higher than our thoughts? Sure they are! But thankfully, we have the mind of Christ, which means that His thought are our thoughts. You say we cannot understand what God is doing in the world? Sure we can! For we have the mind of Christ!”
Now this isn’t a super strong argument, because as soon as you tell another Christian they are wrong about something because you have the mind of Christ, they will answer right back that you are wrong because they have the mind of Christ.
So why does Paul use such a weak argument himself?
Because I don’t think Paul means that you and I individually have the mind of Christ. Rather, I think Paul was talking about the collective mind of all believers in Jesus. We, together, all of us, as the Body of Christ, have the mind of Christ.
What this means is that we can trust Jesus to guide and build His church in the direction He wants it to go.
It is a statement about the tradition and consensus of the church. Not that the majority is always right. No. Instead, the Spirit moves where He will, and the church follows along. As the Spirit leads and as the church follows, it is hard to discern where we are being led in the present, but we can look back and realize that we have been led by the Spirit to where we are today.
Take slavery as an example. When a movement against slavery was first introduced in Europe and then America, some of the most vocal opponents to this movement came from Christians. It was very easy for these Christians to defend slavery from the Bible (both the Old and New Testaments). But today, thankfully, slavery is universally condemned by Christians as being contrary to the will of God.
And while Scripture can be used to lead us toward the truth that all people are created equal, Scripture itself seems to lean more on the side of supporting slavery than speaking out against it. So how did the church arrive at a position of opposing slavery in all its forms?
As far as I can tell, the only real explanation is “We have the mind of Christ.” In other words, God led us here, by His Spirit, in opposition to various texts and passages in God’s Word.
I think similar arguments could be made for women’s rights, and environmentalism, and better working conditions, and a whole host of other issues which the church has traditionally opposed but in recent centuries has come to adopt wholeheartedly.
Sadly and ironically, the surrounding, non-believing culture has typically led the way on many of these issues, which has brought criticism from many of those within the church that all we are doing is following the culture. But couldn’t the explanation also be that God has been trying to get the church to move on these issues first in response to the Spirit and the Mind of Christ, but when we refuse because of tradition and Scripture, God causes “the stones to cry out” until we are forced to listen and respond? I think so …
When the church refuses to listen to the Mind of Christ and speak what the Spirit is saying to the church, Jesus usually gets culture, art, and music to cry out for Him.
I believe a movement is going on in the church, as well as in culture, art, music, and history that seems to fit well with the Mind of Christ as revealed through the life, ministry, and teachings of Jesus. And what is this movement?
That God is love, and in Him there is no violence at all. That God looks like Jesus Christ, as one who would rather die for His enemies than call for the death of His enemies.
So is the Bible violent? Are there violent portrayals of God in the Bible? Of course. And as a result, the Bible has been used (and is being used today) to justify all sorts of violent behavior and actions and attitudes against others. But we have the mind of Christ, and I firmly believe that God, by His Spirit, is leading us to oppose violence in all its forms.
But only time will tell…