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Is Divorce the Unforgivable Sin?

By Jeremy Myers
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Is Divorce the Unforgivable Sin?

divorce unforgivable sinSome believe that divorce is the unforgivable sin.

This view is not as common as it once was. After all, a large percentage of Christians have been divorced. Common “sins” such as divorce usually make poor candidates for the unforgivable sin since such a position would disqualify many Christians from eternal life.

However, there are still some who believe that divorce is unforgivable.

Why some believe Divorce is the Unforgivable Sin

The logic of this view is primarily based upon Malachi 2:16, where God says, โ€œI hate divorce.โ€

Those who quote this verse usually overlook the fact that Scripture lists other sins which God also hates, such as pride, lying, and discord (Prov 6:16-19).

Nevertheless, divorce is singled out as particularly bad, because it is thought to be a sin that people cannot properly repent of, for if someone gets divorced and then repents of it, they are still divorced. The sin still remains. For this reason, people think that divorce is unforgivable because it can never properly be repented of.

Refuting the View that Divorce is the Unforgivable Sin

There is much to be said against the idea that divorce is the unforgivable sin.

First, as with most views about the unforgivable sin, those who hold this view reveal a deep misunderstanding about the grace of God and what was accomplished by Jesus on the cross for the sins of the whole world.

An improper understanding of the grace and forgiveness of God is the root cause of most of the wrong views about the unforgivable sin.

The topics of Godโ€™s infinite grace and forgiveness will be looked at in later posts, and so nothing more will be said about it here except to say that Godโ€™s grace covers even divorce.

God Forgives Divorce

The idea that divorce is unforgivable is also disproven by various Scriptures.

For example, it is critical to recognize that God Himself is a divorced person. In Jeremiah 3:8, God gives Israel a certificate of divorce. In other words, God divorced Israel.

One could argue that God was not exactly married to Israel the same way that a man is married to a woman, but against this it could also be argued that the covenant relationship God has with Israel is far stronger and far more binding than the relationship shared between a husband and wife.

Some might also say that it was okay for God to divorce Israel because of her numerous acts of infidelity to Him, and infidelity is the one basis by which divorce is allowed (cf. Matt 19:9). Of course, Jesus says that the only reason for this allowance was because of the hardness of peopleโ€™s hearts (Matt 19:8). Ideally, not even marital infidelity should result in divorce, as in Godโ€™s eyes, the marriage union lasts as long as both people live. This is even more true of God, whose patience and long-suffering are nearly without limits. Yet the limit was reached, and God gave Israel a certificate of divorce.

So God is a divorced person.

There is also evidence in Scripture that Moses was divorced. First, we learn from Exodus 18:2 that Moses had separated from his wife, Zipporah. This likely had something to do with Zipporah’s disgust at having to circumcise her sons (Exod 4:24-26). After Moses leads the people out of Egypt, Jethro, Zipporah’s father, tried to get the two of them back together, but was unsuccessful, for later in the Pentateuch we learn that Moses had married an Ethiopian woman (Num 12:1).

One wonders if the allowance by Moses for the Israelites to divorce and remarry was because he himself was divorced and remarried (Matt 19:8).

Regardless, everybody expects to see Moses in heaven, and in fact, at the Mount of Transfiguration, Moses is one of the two heavenly beings that speaks with Jesus (Matt 17:1-4).

So divorce is not the unforgivable sin. If you have been divorced, there is grace and forgiveness for you.

Do you fear that you have committed the Unforgivable Sin?

Fear not! You are forgiven. You are loved.

Fill out the form below to receive several emails from me which explains how you can know that you are loved and forgiven by God.

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God is Redeeming Books, Redeeming Theology Bible & Theology Topics: divorce, forgiveness, Matthew 19, Theology of Sin, Unforgivable Sin, unpardonable sin

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10 Reasons Why I Never Argue Theology

By Jeremy Myers
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10 Reasons Why I Never Argue Theology

This is a guest post by Sam Riviera. Heย spends most of his time and energy caring for others in his community so that through his life and actions they might see Jesus. He also makes some of the best cookies you have ever tasted.

If you would like to write a guest post for this blog, check out the guidelines here.

Argument about Theology

Does Our Theology Define Us?

Have we ever said โ€œWhat those people believe is wrong!ย  We believe what the Bible says.โ€

โ€œThoseโ€ people might say the same thing about us.

We organize our beliefs about God, religion and what we think the Bible says into a system we suppose is consistent and call it our theology.

Does Our Theology Unite Us or Divide Us?

If we base our theology on the Bible, then your theology and my theology should agree.ย  Correct?

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God is Redeeming Theology Bible & Theology Topics: guest post, Sam Riviera, Theology - General

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Are you afraid of the Unforgivable Sin? Don’t be. You have NOT committed it!

By Jeremy Myers
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Are you afraid of the Unforgivable Sin? Don’t be. You have NOT committed it!

Most Christians have wondered at one time or another if they have committed the unforgivable sin. Have you?

If this is your fear, be encouraged. You have not committed the unforgivable sin.

You are not eternally damned.

You are not forsaken by God.

You are not hated by God.

You are not outside the bounds of His love and grace.

Quite to the contrary, you are loved by God more than you possibly know.

unforgivable sin

You are forgiven. You are accepted. God loves you!

When I first became a pastor, the very first counseling session I had was with a member of my church who was afraid they had committed the unpardonable sin.

I had personally struggled with fear about this sin in my own life, but I sort of thought that I was alone in this struggle. As I talked with this church member, I clearly remember feeling a sense of relief that I was not alone in being afraid about this sin. There were two of us!

A month later, a high-school student in the church asked me about this sin. He was angry with God and said some things to God that he regretted. He wanted to know if he was now doomed to hell.

Then I received an email from a single mother in the church who had gotten pregnant out of wedlock. Twice. The first pregnancy had been aborted. Someone told her that she was now a murderer and God would never forgive her. She wanted to know if that was true.

I began to see that fear about committing a sin that God would never forgive was a common fear in the lives of other people. So I decided to preach a sermon about the Unpardonable Sin, and what I believed the Scriptures taught about God’s love and forgiveness for us – no matter what we say or do.

To this day, this sermon on the Unforgivable Sin is still my most popular sermon on this website, and I get weekly emails from people all over the world who are afraid they have committed the unforgivable sin and want to know if God still loves them and if there is hope for them.

I do not know if you struggle with fear about the unpardonable sin. But if not, I guarantee that you know people who do. They may not express this fear to you, but there are people in your life who have done something they fear God will never forgive.

If you are afraid you committed the unforgivable sin, I have created a short series of emails you can receive about this sin (You can sign up below).

These emails explain what this sin is (and is not) and how to know that you have not committed it.

Even if you do not personally struggle with fear about this sin, you might want to get these emails anyway, since you almost certainly will encounter somebody who is afraid of it, and it would be helpful for you to have a way to encourage them and give them hope about God’s love and forgiveness.

In this series of emails on the Unforgivable Sin, I show why you have not committed this sin, and you can know that you have not committed it.

If you struggle with fear about committing the unforgivable sin, this free series of emails is for you.

This series of posts begins by surveying the various views about the unforgivable sin, which is also called “blasphemy against the Holy Spirit.” This survey includes an examination of Matthew 12:31-32 so that we can understand what Jesus meant when He talked about the unforgivable sin.

The most common theories about the unpardonable sin (also called the unforgivable sin) include the sins of adultery, divorce, murder, and even cursing the Holy Spirit. None of these are the unforgivable sin.

Not even suicide is the unforgivable sin.

While many churches and pastors teach that those who commit since like those listed above can never be forgiven, this series of posts reveals that all such sins are forgivable by God.

If you have committed adultery, you are forgiven!

If you got a divorce, you are forgiven!

If you had an abortion, you are forgiven!

If a friend of yours committed suicide, this does not mean they automatically went to hell.

If you are afraid that you blasphemed the Holy Spirit, do not worry — God has already forgiven you for whatever you said or whatever you did.

Even if you cursed God, cursed the Holy Spirit, or said some terrible things to them, God still loves you and still forgives you.

Yes, it is true… There is a sin in the Bible which is “unpardonable.” Yes, the Bible talks about a sin which cannot be forgiven.

But there is so much bad teaching in the church about what this sin is, how it is committed, and whether or not there is hope for those who commit this sin, but you do not need to worry about committing it.

Some churches teach that there are seven unforgivable sins in the Bible, or that there is one thing you can say which will cause God to hate you forever, or that if you have done something terrible in your past there is no hope for your eternal soul.

All such teachings are unhealthy! They do not reflect the heart of God, His great love for you, or the infinite forgiveness He has provided to you in the person and work of Jesus Christ.

If there is a sin you have committed which you think is unforgivable, or which makes you think God does not love you, or makes you feel like you cannot be forgiven, do not worry any longer. This series of emails will give you hope for your future and reveal to you the infinite love, grace, and mercy of God for you.

In the end, you will learn that you have not committed the unforgivable sin.

If you fear you have committed the unforgivable sin, or if you simply want to learn what this sin is (and is not), sign up below to receive a series of free emails about this sin.

Do you fear that you have committed the Unforgivable Sin?

Fear not! You are forgiven. You are loved.

Fill out the form below to receive several emails from me which explains how you can know that you are loved and forgiven by God.

(Note: If you are a member of RedeemingGod.com, login and then revisit this page to update your membership.)

 

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God is Featured, Redeeming Theology Bible & Theology Topics: adultery, blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, divorce, forgiveness, grace, Matthew 12:31-32, mercy, murder, sin, Unforgivable Sin, unpardonable sin

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How to hear the Voice of the Spirit

By Jeremy Myers
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How to hear the Voice of the Spirit

Listening to the SpiritFor many, the guidance of the Holy Spirit is a mystical and magical affair.

It is believed that listening to the Spirit is only for the most spiritual of Christians, and hearing the Spirit is often accompanied by strange experiences like dreams, visions, and speaking in tongues.

But such an approach to the Spirit does more damage than good.

It treats the Holy Spirit as some sort of pagan deity who must rely upon ecstatic utterances and erratic behavior to get his message across to people. Many false religions depend on such things, and believe that their particular deity cannot speak to them except through such strange behavior.

But our God is not like their gods.

The Spirit’s Voice

The Spiritโ€™s voice is more like the still small voice of God which is most often mistaken for our very own thoughts.

Since all who have believed in Jesus are indwelled by the Spirit of God, we must take it on faith that the Spirit who empowered Jesus also empowers and guides us.

As we go about our days, seeking to follow Jesus and love others, we must recognize that many of the thoughts that โ€œpop intoโ€ our minds regarding the needs and concerns of others, are probably not our own thoughts, but are rather due to the quiet, influencing guidance of the Holy Spirit.

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Get Your Blog Post Read by Thousands

By Jeremy Myers
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Get Your Blog Post Read by Thousands

blog boardI love having other bloggers and authors write Guest Posts for this blog. See some of the previous Guest Posts here.

While we do accept Guest Post Submissions for the Redeeming God blog, we are moving away from publishing guest posts from random contributors, and are instead focusing on building community within our regular readers. This means that we will only consider guest posts from people who are active in the comment section and membership section of this blog. So if you want to get published on RedeemingGod.com, start by registering as a member, reading some of the blog posts, interacting with others in the comment section, and generally just contributing to our online community.

If you are part of our community and want to write a Guest Post for my blog, I am willing to consider it for publication.

Your post would be:

  • Viewed by 1000s of daily visitors
  • Sent out to over 3000 people on my weekly mailing list
  • Tweeted to over 8,000 followers
  • Posted on my Facebook page with over 10,000 “close friends“

All of this could lead to more exposure and readers for your blog!

But here’s the thing … and this is important!

I get about a dozen emails a day from bloggers who want me to help them. Few ever offer to help with my blog. Only rarely do I recognize them from the comment section on this blog, or from seeing them share my posts on Facebook or Twitter. So these bloggers clearly donโ€™t want to build a blogging relationship; they just want to use me. This doesnโ€™t feel good.

If you want to write a guest post for this blog (or for any blog), let me give you two bits of blogging advice that I have put into practice over the years and which have helped me immensely:

  1. Help others first. Before you seek to get other bloggers to help you, first help them. Share their posts on social networks. Comment on their posts. Add to their community. Be friendly. Be helpful. The vast majority of the guest posts I publish here on this blog only got published here because they were active participants here first.If I came up to you on the street and you had no clue who I was and I said, “Hey, buddy. Can I have $20?” I doubt you would give it to me. But if we had been friends for a few years, you might be more willing to help me out. Blogging is the same way. Bloggers are more likely to help people they know than to help random strangers.
  2. Do your homework. Before you approach a blogger about maybe getting some help from them, make sure that you have searched their site for โ€œguest post guidelinesโ€ or something like that. If the site doesn’t have a search box, just search Google for “guest post RedeemingGod.com” and put their blog name in the place of mine.ย I regularly get emails from people who say, “Hey, do you allow guest posts? I want to write one. Let me know how.” They clearly did zero research, and are not regular readers of my blog, so this give me no reason to want to help in return.ย It is sort of like people who want toย get their blog on myย ย โ€œTop 100 Christian Blogsโ€ list. They send me emails saying, “How can I get on this list?” Well, the list itself tells people how. Anyway, if you want to write a blog post for another blog, do your homework.But YOU clearly have done some homework, because you are reading this! Well done! So here are some steps for submitting a guest post on the RedeemingGod.com blog:

To submit a guest post to RedeemingGod.com, take the following steps:

  1. Write a 400-800 word blog post on any topic related to Scripture and Theology (Read some of the others here).ย Your post should be an original article, which has not been posted elsewhere online.ย 
  2. Find an appropriate picture or two which fits your blog post.
  3. Include a small picture of yourself and a 30-50 word bio with 2-3 web links to your blog or other social sites.
  4. Send all of this to me at guestpost AT redeeminggod.com

I am looking forward to reading what you submit!

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God is Redeeming Theology Bible & Theology Topics: Blogging, guest blogging, guest post

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